I satisfy my husband, but he doesn't satisfy me
Q. Is it fair that I always do oral sex to my husband until he gets to the climax without even asking if I want him to do it to me too or have the real sex either. I don't directly ask him to do it because I feel like he should have known it as a ...
A. 22 February 2011: talk to him and ask him to fullfill ur urges. he is not mind reader. communication is crucial in a relationship.
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Lack of trust has caused my boyfriend to have tight grip on me!
Q. I'm in a long-distance relationship with someone I truly do care about. We talk about the future, and he makes it clear that the our bond is not about sex. Unfortunately, in the beginning of our relationship, when it began to bud from a friendship ...
A. 22 February 2011: i read all the guys good comments and explanations. all the comments are appreciated by me. okay my advice will be accept whatever he tells u, it really seems like u have cheated on him in ur first days of relationships, when u were not really sure ... (read in full...)
I love my husband but want to keep the friendship
Q. i have a vvery good male friend which ive known for 27years. since met and married my husband i have been banned from any form of contact with him. it hurts me so much and i do miss speaking to him. my husband is worried that there will be mo...
A. 22 February 2011: your husband is ur first priority. if u really do love ur husband that much dearly, then why u don't respect his feelings. suppose if he did same thing with u, meeting with a friend (girl) and u doubted, telling him not meet her, and if he insisted ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend slept with some guy from her office. I feel I deserve better,should I forgive her?
Q. Hai my girlfriend and i have being dating for 3 years and wants to have sex, well am a virgin i am 23 and want to wait till we get married, am so commited to her, but recently found out she has being sleeping with some guy at her office she said it ...
A. 20 February 2011: Never ever forgive her. find someone who really deserves u. why marry with a woman who doenst respect u and ur feelings. u know what, cheaters can never be guarentied and the reason is that they have already cheated and there is no guarenti they ... (read in full...)
Should I date a superficial woman who treated me like dirt?
Q. Hi, I'll get right to the point. I was for many years in love with a lady from my school. I told her i loved her many times but she thought of me as a geek and always dated the most popular guy in college, she took my love for granted. Well, 5 yrs ...
A. 20 February 2011: "Should i date such a superficial woman? Who put me down most of our college days?" u have given the answer urself. look at the above statement. u clearly say urself, that she is superficial woman and she put u down, then what is the need of havi... (read in full...)
Every time I fight with my husband I think about leaving him
Q. I am having a hard time because every time I fight with my husband I think about leaving him. I never say this too him (or to anyone really), but I actually start making plans in my mind to get an apartment and do something else. When we are ...
A. 19 February 2011: Dear, if you really love your husband then never ever think of leaving. Everyone fights and quarrels, but that shouldn't cause us to think about leaving our partners. Talk and communicate with your husband, about the ways to sort out the situatio... (read in full...)
Boyfriend taking advantage of me being jealous!
Q. i am 13 and my bf is 14. im a very jealous person but my bf seems to be taking advantage of this, one day he came out of lesson telling me how big this other girls breasts are and her bra size. he has done this to me with many girls on many dif...
A. 19 February 2011: My dear, don't be crazy in love. You are quite young, very young. At that age, such things come and go. I am not saying dump that guy, but what I am saying is just concentrate on your studies and your career. You have a long life in front of you. ... (read in full...)
Is it weird that I want to meet the guy my girlfriend cheated with?
Q. My girlfriend cheated on me 7 months ago and at the time I was only able to deal with it by pretending it hadn't happened. Now I feel I will never be able to move on in my mind without knowing who this guy is. Is it wierd that I want to meet him? I ...
A. 17 February 2011: NO need to confront him. break up with her. She cheated on u, whom claims loves u alot. that boy is not reproachful. the cheater is here with u, dump her and never ever look at her back, even though she will implore for reunion. once a cheater is ... (read in full...)
What does this man want from me?? How do I stop caring?
Q. Last year I moved to a new country and met a man whom I really liked and dated for about 4 months. During those 4 months, I had caught him sending 'flirty/sexy' text messages to other women and had confronted him. He apologised but then I found...
A. 17 February 2011: dear this is my personal experience. i hope u wont repeat it as i did repeated it in my life. u will always be in mental presure and will never be happy if u accept someone who has cheated u. that man has cheated u, and anytime u will be upset of ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend knows that it bothers me that his ex still contacts him but he does nothing about it
Q. My boyfriend has been with me 6 months. A year before, he and his ex of 2 years broke up. His ex, despite our relationship, continues to contact him with messages plainly suggesting that they want to date him again. I asked my bf to cut off ...
A. 15 February 2011: i really wonder why pple are doing like that? i will never ever make my gf upset from me for others, if i love her and same she does (love). these ppl are much cheap who dont care for the feelings of their partners.
i would suggest, just move on ... (read in full...)
We are good mates, but it looks like he wants more. I'm not sure. Should I allow it to become more?
Q. For a long time now everyone has been telling me to get with a particular boy. This morning he told me he loved me, but we are really good friends. I dont know how I feel. We are already good mates and have gone out with friends a couple of times...
A. 13 February 2011: i think you are between love and like and somewhat confuse if u love him or only it is like. but i think u like him and not love. my advice will be tell him clearly that u don't love him and he is only ur friend, dont tell him lie if u don't really ... (read in full...)
I know he's busy but doesn't he even have time for a brief message?
Q. Hello, Let me try to summarize the whole story really quickly. (for more detail on how things started, read "I want to show him I care without scaring him off". This is a followup.) I met a wonderful man who lives in another country not far...
A. 12 February 2011: I applaud u and give a stand ovation to your loyalty, faith and honesty u have to a person who is far away from u. I love u and ur loyalty. To your response i will say that, before accepting anyone else offer, u had better contact him once... (read in full...)
'I'm marrying you for your great sex'. Really??!!
Q. Hello Cupids (: I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 4years and 8months, when he recently proposed to me. I said yes, and i was all happy and, as you would be, excited! Until the other night. He had been out to the pub for ...
A. 10 February 2011: the important thing in your whole statement is here, that when on the other day you told him, he just smiled, and didn't respon. if he meant something else he would say everything. But here it means he took it very light, and the reason is that he ... (read in full...)
Jealousy is ruining our relationship. Help!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for about 1 year and a half almost and we live together for a year as well and i am very jealous and everytime we go out anywere i catch him looking a girls butt i think that maybe its me and i think that all guys do ...
A. 10 February 2011: Let me say in three statments, and then you can understand who is wrong. 1: if he just glances, as a normal guy and you flip then your mistake... 2: if he stares at her, and looking strange (with sex eyes) then his mistake. 3: You really do... (read in full...)
We're separated but he still contacts my family..does this mean he still cares about me?
Q. Hi, I am separated of my husband. He asked me for space-time and I accepted it. That has been for 2 months and we never talk each other since he left the house. But I don't understand why he talks with my family?? My family live overseas and he c...
A. 10 February 2011: Yes, he still cares for u,,,, the logic is that if he didn't love u or cared for u he would never contacted ur family and when he is doing so, then means he has feeling for u and he is he is missing u being away from u....one thing i would advice, ... (read in full...)
I'm finally with my GF, but after fending off her vicious ex and a lot of drama in the past. How do I heal myself after all this?
Q. Alright, here is a quick background of myself. I moved around a lot as a kid, (parents divorced when I was 6), learned all about marriages from the multiple ones my mother has been part of. I am an intellectual, a man of principle, and an ...
A. 10 February 2011: I do agree with Basschick, and gave u 5 stars for ur answer. very wise answer...but i disagree in one point, that let her in her own way ,instead of communicating that with her. i mean gave her the choice of deciding herself what to do...she is ... (read in full...)
He won't like it that I went out to the club -- should I tell him?
Q. So my frineds and I go Out To eat And after That they want To go To the club of course I'm the driver for tonight I'm engaged and I know if I tell him that we when to the club he is going to flip but I'm not drinking nor am i dancing with any guys ...
A. 8 February 2011: Dear! that is the super shot of ur statement. "I have learned not to do that again because if he did that to me, I would be super mad!" well done!!! i appreciate ur that statement and that is what i was trying to tell u in my upper statment as an ... (read in full...)
Four girls and I don't know who to choose!
Q. I do love a girl (A) and she loves me too.And we're now in long distance relationship since three months.. But one thing is that she's in relationship with next guy S too.. But she's in love with me and we've been like this since seven months.. And ...
A. 6 February 2011: Dear Alunee,
I am sorry if been rude. Don't mind my words dear, i have no purpose behind. Whatever am saying is free from all bias and am completely impartial, but on the other hand try to solve someones problem to the extent i can.
this is... (read in full...)
Four girls and I don't know who to choose!
Q. I do love a girl (A) and she loves me too.And we're now in long distance relationship since three months.. But one thing is that she's in relationship with next guy S too.. But she's in love with me and we've been like this since seven months.. And ...
A. 5 February 2011: Life will be a battle if you want to try four girls....Why write on this page if you don't care about other's point of view....Just go on, and accept who ever you want...why are asking for advice????? ... (read in full...)
Four girls and I don't know who to choose!
Q. I do love a girl (A) and she loves me too.And we're now in long distance relationship since three months.. But one thing is that she's in relationship with next guy S too.. But she's in love with me and we've been like this since seven months.. And ...
A. 4 February 2011: offfff, having relationship with four. why do u confuse urself????
Have relationship with non of them.
A: A is not suitable coz she is not loyal...having bf, who is not forced on her, but she is now connected with u, anytime she may be conne... (read in full...)
He wants me back, but I've now slept with his best friend. I don't know what to do!
Q. I broke up with the guy I loved 2 yrs ago, due to circumstances beyond my control. I have never really gotten over him. Sometime last year I started hanging out with a friend of his and we ended up having sex. Now my ex bf is back, and wants us ...
A. 2 February 2011: Dear,
Don't make up with ur former boy friend again, coz it will hurt both in future....whether u tell him the truth or hide, but it will surely create problem in future..... he will perhaps not get angry and will accept u again apart from kno... (read in full...)
Do I still stand a chance? Could I possibly win him over somehow?
Q. Hi there . I need help I'm so confused with this . I want to know if I still have a chance with this guy . We have so much history . 3 years ago I was introduced to this guy by my (girl)friend. I thought he was cute and told her . She tried hookin...
A. 31 January 2011: No need stick to him.
first he didnt love u from the begining and loved only ur friend.
2ndly if you marry him, then u will never be happy as u may think he loves her (your friend) not you, better move on and keep no contact with him.
Th... (read in full...)
My wife's male friend told her he loved her and she ask me what to do!
Q. My wife of 8 years with two kids asked me what she should do about her male friend who told her he love her. He said he knows she is married and she can't help him, but he can't stop thinking about her. He loves to talk the whole day with her. ...
A. 30 January 2011: Dear,
For God sake don't say u dont want her judge u being jealous. what u say! it is amazing man. she should realize that u feel jealous and that u should, u can't allow anyone telling ur wife i love u and u keep ur mouth shut, watching a clappi... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....
Q. Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...
A. 30 January 2011: Dear All, Thank u so much from all of you. Everyone contributed a lot in solving my question and gave your kind advice on this, but I am extending my special thanks to ABELLA, whose response was much impressive and it really solved my heart ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....
Q. Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...
A. 29 January 2011: Thank you so much everyone for your kind and valuable advice on this.... it really worked. ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing to break up with her? I feel bad for hurting her, but she hurt me so many times.....
Q. Hi, hope you are fine and doing well. I am really really sorry it will be very long for you to read, but please read it and give your kind advice and comments on this. i have a sad story and now am confused if i did well broke up with her in fear ...
A. 28 January 2011: Thank u so much dear for ur patience, reading it till the end and give ur valuable advice.... it is true that love makes us very soft hearted, kind, patient and same time very ego less, i wouldn't may be forgiven her and given her so maany chances, ... (read in full...)
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