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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:ive been out with this boy about 15 times and im in love with him so much. Were best mates and we flirt alot but recently my over best friend whos a girl has started saying hes good looking and the boy is putting her first for everything do you think they like eachother ? if they do what makes it worse is i told my girl best mate how much he means to me she knows i adore him any advice what i can do ?
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reader, 0000BraveHeart0000  +, writes (30 November 2010):
You know, you have every right to be concerned that your sweet and dotting boyfriend is suddenly turning all his attention to your best girlfriend. Usually when a bestie says your beau is good looking it is a compliment most of the time. As girls, we would love to know that our friends appreciate our boyfriends. However, who is to say that she isnt interested in him?
Like you said, she said he was good looking. Did you notice her facial expressions, tone of voice at the time? Also, you said he is paying more attention to her than you, is she leading him on?? Take note because these are little signs that might show her alteriormotives. If anything out of the ordinary happens then she will be held more accountable than him because as a bestfriend (and I am sure you guys have been friends for a long time) you are not suppose to hook up with your friend's man!!! It is the forbidden rule!!! She knows that you loves him as I am sure you said it many times so if he approaches her or tries to lead her on, she should say " Look, you real cute and all but I just cant treat my home girl like that" and ignore him. Boys come and go but sister are forever man!!!!
Just play it cool for the time and see what happens then you would know how to take it from there.
BEST OF LUCK
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