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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Should I use a condom if I am already protected by the contraceptive pills and would the bleeding prevent me from having an orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6101 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - hello, Im a girl from Asia, I havent got much sex education at school, and so at this age when I know the time is coming I feel a bit confused. I'd like to prepare for my first time and also my sex life in the long run. Plz help me with these ...

Does first time oral hurt?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Does it hurt getting a blow job for the 1st time ever? because i'm a virgin but i'm scared to have sex with this girl that i like a lot.. what should i do???...

Where to look for a relationship? I'm 27 and never dated.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6098 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Where is a good place to look for a relationship? I'm 27, soon to be 28, and have never dated. I am interested in trying now, but I don't know where to look or even what to do if I do find someone. ...

No sex before marriage... or should I?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - My family are conservative Christians and have a strong, deeply rooted belief that sex before marriage is a big no-no. For the first half of my life I also believed in this, and I wanted to remain abstinent until marriage. If anything, to make my ...

The age differecen would be huge...but would it be right??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6076 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - The problem is that I am 28 years old, a mature student at University, and the female students are younger than me, aged 19-23. Am I too old to date a younger female student aged 20-23? Is it morally wrong? The age gap (say I found a girlfriend aged ...

I feel bad I'm thinking of my gf while masturbating, as if I'm disrespecting her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - I wanted to know, please. Just about every time I masturbate I think of my girlfriend, afterwards I feel bad that I would think of her in such a dirty way, is this normal?...

Does masturbation change the shape of the vagina?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - 2 virgins, one masturbates and other doesnt is there any difference in their pussy shape?...

He said we'd practice more next time so I don't think he enjoyed it as much? How to improve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - Hi. I am 18 and a virgin and have been going out with my boyfriend for two months. The other night we got pretty intimate and it got a little awkward and i'd just like some opinions from you what i should do. I gave him a handjob and while he came i ...

Can you lose your virginity through masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5333 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - what are difference between virgin pussy and un virgin pussy? and can a girl lose her virginity while masturbating (fingering only)?...

I am in relationship with an older girl and feel pressurised to have sex. I also need to increase my confidence, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - i am in a relationship with an older girl and i am a virgin but she isn't. i feel pressured but don't want to have sex out of embarrasment. because of lack of exsperience and how would i know if its big or small compared to others'?...

Sexual activity not finalised in intercourse, could I be pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6106 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - The other day, me and my boyfriend did a bit of foreplay. He came and then for the first time he fingered me, his penis did not enter me, but it touched my vagina. Could i be pregnent? ...

I'd really appreciate some advice on how I can improve my social life, and get an attractive girlfriend before it is too late.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6103 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - Hi everybody. I'd be grateful for some advice on my problem. I am a 28 year old virgin. I have never had sex in my lifetime. I feel like I am getting old and that I am missing-out on things like girlfriends and sexual experience in general. I d...

Can you answer my questions on sex please?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - Ok I am a 20 year old virgin in college which is tough. But I think my time may be coming. I have A LOT of questions (sorry, and thanks to anyone who reads it all) help on any would be appreciated. Anyways I hear all this about women having a hard ...

I'm 20 and still a virgin. I'm struggling to cope! What can I do?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 4771 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - Hey guys, I'd really appreciate some advice about this. Please bear with me; I've never spoken about this to anybody, and I need to get this off my chest. As a 20 year old virgin (a male virgin no less) I find myself feeling blue a lot. I have th...

I hear a lot about negative aspects, now what are the benefits of having sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6108 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - My bf and I have been dating for over a year. We love and care about eachother. We enjoy spending time together. We like to make out and kiss. We are both virgins. We have been talking about sex. I think we will end up doing it. We have both...

What are some activities/ways of making love that we can do that don't involve intercourse?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be ...

How can we make love without having sex??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5463 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be...

Am I just too tight?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6112 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - hi, I've had sex once before with someone I really loved, i lost my virginity to him, but i was nervous and kind of froze at the thought of it. He was big down there and it did hurt a bit. I'm starting to get a bit worried i'm too tight to have sex...

Should I tell my Mom I lost my virginity?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

17 February 2008 (F) - I recently had sex for the first time but i dont know if i should tell my mum or not, i dont want her hatin me for it, what could i do?...

I didn't ejaculate through manual stimulation with my first gf. Any method to facilitate this? Is anterior masturbation to blame?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

17 February 2008 (M) - Hey Im a 26 year old male virgin, and only got my 1st girl friend a month ago.. My girl has tried giving me a handjob 4 times now, each time with her tryin until her arms go numb (30 mins to an hour), and i just don't cum I dont know if its ...

I finally feel prepared for sex but how to communicate this to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

17 February 2008 (F) - I've just got my first ever guy,and i've not mentioned i'm a virgin and i don't think i'm ever going to,anyway he said he would wait until i was happy to do it. well i'm ready now, but don't know where to start or what to do i know this sounds ...

Disagreement about virginity with my boyfriend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6113 days ago

15 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I seem to have a disagreement regarding virginity. Four years ago, when I was just a 15 year old, I gave a BJ to a friend of mine. He was always a friend, nothing but. Two years later, this friend introduced me to my now boyfriend...

I touch myself alot...would a guy be able to tell??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

11 February 2008 (F) - Um, I'm just worried, I touch myself quite a lot and I know that's not really a bad thing, is it? But I just wondered, I'm a virgin but when I have sex for the first time will the guy be able to tell that I touched myself?...

Should I still sleep with her even though she didnt tell me she was a virgin and it freaked me out??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

10 February 2008 (M) - Ok i just kinda slept with this girl, she was a virgin and never told me before hand.. It really freaked me out that she didn't tell me until we were about to start. I don't know if there is a reason for this or not. But has anyone ever experienced ...

Does it feel the same when you masturbate as it does when you have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

9 February 2008 (F) - I am a Virgin and I have just started to masturbate. Each time I do it it takes longer and longer until I get this amazing feeling which makes me shiver all over!! Does this mean I'm getting better at it? Also, is this an orgasm and does it feel ...

Is my virginity a problem?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - Hello,there!i have a question,I have a problem coz im not virgin anymore then he doesn't appreciate it that im still a virgin at my age now...He knows all my past that i have many boyfriends before but i never give up to them of my virginity,i ...

Does one's body change after losing their virginity?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - I was just wondering...Does your body change after you lose your virginity? If so what changes??? My mom told me that when girls lose their virginity that their butts start to get wider..is this true???...

I noticed a hard lump on my vagina about the size of half a pea. Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6049 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Ok, I didn't notice this until today, it's pretty gross... but I have like a hard lump on my vagina about the size of half a pea. On the outside. It doesn't hurt, it's just... there. I've tried googling this but every site tells me to stop having ...

I have fallen in love with my best friend, we are going out now, but I'm very inexperienced, how do we move on to home base?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6125 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my best friend and it's soooo good. I'm not very sexually experienced though, and I want to take our relationship (we've been seeing eachother for a few months now)to the next level. This is something which i'm understandably ...

I'm a 20yr old male virgin, am I weird?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4996 days ago

5 February 2008 (M) - Hi, would this make people think i'm weird. i'm 20, about to turn 21, and basically i have had no experience with intimacy. Like i've never even kissed anyone intimately, let alone had sex. I've been kissed but thats when i was heaps younger, and it ...

Will my virginity ruin our relation ship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

5 February 2008 (M) - Hey everybody, I'm 20 years old and I'm a virgin. I've had a few chances to lose it, mainly to tragic drunk girls or the trashy ones who offered back home. There's a girl I met and we hit it off really well. I started dating her and I think our ...

I'm scared, whats going to happen when my 'cherry pops'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4609 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - Ok so im 16 years old and im still a virgin. Im going out with this guy that i have known forever, but have been dating for only about 3 weeks. I have had plenty of chances to have sex with him but i get scared and stop him from going all the way. ...

How can I relax enough to make our 1st time great?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6126 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - hi... I just wanted to ask everyone here bout wht should i keep in mind during first time sex. me n my bf have been away frm eachother since 3 yrs as he was out of country. as he is cming back, he is desparate n im shy n very tensed. so can any...

My first time wans't god. Did we do it right?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6123 days ago

4 February 2008 (F) - hi im 16 years old ill be 17 shortly ive been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now and recently losy my virginity with him it was his first time to! as we were doing it i relaxed a bit as ive read its beter if we are relaxed but im not too s...

What is the best position for first time sex??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

3 February 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are ready to start having full sex. What is the best position for first intercourse? I know my boyfriend will be gentle but i was thinking a pillow underneath to raise my buttocks and legs as far apart as possible might ease pen...

How do we know if we are ready for sex and in love??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6128 days ago

2 February 2008 (F) - How do we know if were in love and want to have sex? I know we're young and im a virgin and i think that my bf is. We've been going out for almost 4 months but we really really love each other and would do anything for each other. Any time i go ...

Will I last long when I am having sex for the first time??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6129 days ago

1 February 2008 (M) - Should I last long on my first time of having sex?...