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writes:Ok i just kinda slept with this girl, she was a virgin and never told me before hand.. It really freaked me out that she didn't tell me until we were about to start. I don't know if there is a reason for this or not. But has anyone ever experienced anything similar.I didn't break her virginity. Should i still sleep with her even tho she didn't tell me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2008): i didnt tell my bf because i was embarrassed and worried hed feel pressured.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): the reason that she never told you was because it might turn you off .. most guys dont liek the idea of knowing that there gf's are virgins .. i dunno why but they just dont like it ..so from what i have read , my guess it was just a self defence move .. she didnt want to tell you because she thoguht that you would move on and upset her .. i dnt thin it matters if she was a virgin and didnt tell you before hand .. if you love her then it doent matter that life throws at you . you have 2 just stay toghether in it . ... hope this helps .. you can reply to me if u have any more questions at Prinstion Girl xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Should it really matter honey? I don't know why you're freaking out, I mean, you ARE both just young. You shouldn't just expect her to have lost her virginity, but you should be thankful and respect her for having the courage to tell you. She could have just said nothing, then how would you have felt if you found out later? Actually, aren't you pleased that she's willing to lose here virginity to you? Maybe she likes you a little more than you think. So don't ridicule her, or think of her differently, everyone goes through different stages of life and different times, so try not to be freaked out or upset. Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): If you slept with her, then she is no longer a virgin. Not all women bleed or feel anything significant down there when they lose their virginity.
I also wonder, what difference would it make whether she told you sooner? Would you not have had sex with her? I don't know why it freaked you out but I am guessing that she warned you that she was a virgin before you had sex just incase she did bleed or find the whole experience uncomfortable - or maybe it was her way of telling you how much she likes you, the fact that she was happy to lose her virginity to you?
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