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writes:Hello,My boyfriend have been going steady for a while now and we are very much in love. We love just spending time together. We enjoy doing many things together. We are both virgins and have talked about having sex. He says that there would be nothing better for him than to see me naked, kiss me in places that are usually covered with clothes, and have sex with me as part of love making. I have mentioned to him that I am not ready for sex. He is very good and puts no pressure on me. He says that he does not want me to do anything I don’t want to. He says that when the time is right and I’m ready it will come. He says he will be in no hurry and just wait patently. I would like to at least make some of his wishes come true. I would like to give him a chance to see me in the nude. I would also like to see him in the nude. What are some activities/ways of making love that we can do that don't involve intercourse? Thanks for your time.
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reader, CrystalMarie  +, writes (29 November 2009):
You guys should try taking a bath together. you could see each other without clothes on, wash each other, or just cuddle. whatever you want to do. bath salts would help make the mood a little more. Bubbles are nice too, and if u want to have a little cover you can use them or even just use the bubbles to play around with and have fun. Good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): You both can get naked and just 'explore' each others body with just your hands and maybe your lips and tongues. You can do this and not have actual intercourse.You can also....do the oral sex thing on eachother, but some people still consider this as having sex and losing your virginity.Now the bad thing aabout this is this....your boyfriend can become so overly aroused that he may 'force' himself upon you and then accuse you of enticing or provoking him into this....so be very careful! Self control is a key issue here and the way we hope it may turn out...may not be as beautiful as we hoped and dreamed. Be very careful!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Really you are talking about foreplay so it is a good idea to experiment fully with this. One thing that my boyfriend and I like to do is give each other a massage - a lovely relaxing oil and some lit candles makes a romantic and sensual experience and is very intimate. Sex is not always necessary as you will both feel fully relaxed and will have had a chance to explore one anothers body. The 'giving' and 'receiving' of a massage is very loving. Your boyfriend sounds like a lovely guy and it is so important to wait until you are ready.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): There are plenty thing you can do sexually, without making love. Yet you can't make love without making love lol. Sex IS making love, so you would find that hard lol. French kissing (appropriate, as you are french lol), him feeling your breasts and oral sex (if you don't class this as sex) are just a few. Just generally explore each other, you could give him a hand job. Good luck, and remember, have fun :]
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