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writes:Hi. I am 18 and a virgin and have been going out with my boyfriend for two months. The other night we got pretty intimate and it got a little awkward and i'd just like some opinions from you what i should do. I gave him a handjob and while he came i don't think he really enjoyed it as he said we'll practise it more the next time. The question is how do i do it so he will enjoy it more? Is the foreskin automatically pulled back when i give him a handjob or do i physically pull it back? When he went to finger me i really enjoyed it at first but he used two fingers then and it got sore. My question is will the soreness stop the more he does it with two fingers? Any help would be great as i don't want the next time we get intimate to be as awkward. Thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): hi, being of similar age, and fairly new to all this aswel, i can sympathise with you. 2 Keys to remember - 1.Practice makes perfect! 2.Communication The first one will probably be a lot more fun and easier, but communication is the key to every successful relationship. Being able to tell your partner what you like, and vice versa, will make things a lot easier. It will also help you to relax, so you will be a lot less tense, meaning you will be looser, and it wont be as painful.P.S. Lube will make a lot of difference too!Best of luck.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 First of all the handjob.
A friend of mine who claims to be the handjob queen says one thing is the key to given great handjobs: Wetness.
Keep his dick wet either with your spit ( not as gross as it sounds ) or easier lube: just go to your local supermarket buy KY jelly or any other sex lubricant, apply to the tip of his penis then you can pull his foreskin down ( it will just slip down with lubricant ), then gently massage his cock starting from the tip and using a twirling motion all the way down: that should do the trick, but remember the key is keeping lots of moisture on his cock.
And as for your own problem, as a virgin you pussy will be quite tight so use some of that same lube you use on your boyfriend's cock and while you are giving him a handjob you can apply some inside your vagina. His two fingers will go in easy enough then and you will probably find he's putting 3 in there before long.
so the key here is too keep both sets of private parts fully lubed .
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (24 February 2008):
 Okay, i think the key thing to remember is that getting intimate should really involve talking to each other. You have to be willing to 'practice'. No one is ever really good at something before they start trying. ask him what he likes and let him help you, this way you can both figure out what feels good.
As for him fingering you, it can be sore if you've never done anything like that before. it eventually gets easier, and the more turned on/aroused you are before hand the 'wetter' you get, the easier it will feel. If it starts to hurt, make sure you communicate this to your boyfriend so that he knows to be gentler with you. It won't hurt every time unless he's too rough.
Make sure you tell each other what's going on, you're not mind readers.
Gud luck.
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