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*exi_3
writes:Ok so im 16 years old and im still a virgin. Im going out with this guy that i have known forever, but have been dating for only about 3 weeks. I have had plenty of chances to have sex with him but i get scared and stop him from going all the way. We have done other things but never sex. I know im ready but theres just somethings holding me back. Such as the way i feel about my appearance naked. Although he has seen me nude before its still hard to feel comfortable. But the biggest reason i havent had sex is because i dont want to feel embrassed when my 'cherry pops.' I know you dont have to just have sex for it to rip, but i havent ever noticed random bleeding before. So my question is, when it finally pops will it be a lot of blood, and what do you do when this happens? Are you suppose to keep having sex, or stop.Thanks,please help me!
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reader, concerned2012 +, writes (1 April 2012):
Itll b a small amount n with the lights off u wont notice til after just say i think u broke My.cherry
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reader, lilmoo123456 +, writes (22 March 2008):
How much do u bleed wen u cherry pop
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): You're too young! And what? 3 weeks! 3 weeks is nothing honey! You're not ready, don't do it!
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (6 February 2008):
 ok frist reason the naked bit -- try maybe at night or in the dark, you dont HAVE to be naked to have sex the first time, being completly nude can be introduced later on.
second reason: being embarrased -- ok every girl is different. Some bleed some dont, its normal either way. if you do bleed you dont bleed buckets hun, its not much, its a teeny bit thats all. Don't be embarrased about it, if he knows your a virgin them explain to him you may bleed. He also should knwo to be gentle and not rush it as it may hurt. If you relax it wiill hurt less. If you use foreplay before it will hurt even more less =D x
Remember to wear a condom and message me if you wanan talk
best of luck
Raven x
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reader, Sarah - Louise +, writes (5 February 2008):
 Well Being Your First time it will always be scary and lip biting i was excatly the same , but You Might bleed you might not its all apart of life and take it slow dont rush into it . Your first time should be special soo just enjoy , and your first tiime mite be uncomftable and not soo good but that will always occur. just be relaxed and calm . :] xxxx all tha best Sarah ___x
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reader, Unknown_53 +, writes (5 February 2008):
hello there well every girl is different and yes some girl do bleed and others dont so it will be normal if you do so, the amount of blood that comes out im still not sure because im still a virgin as well, and i also have problems with my appearance naked (mostly because of excess skin from weight loss) thats not the point.one of the girls i know recently had sex and sex that she bled but not alot, so im assuming you shouldn't bleed a lot just maybe a little but, and one more thing the first time it will hurt you a lot, so just tell your boyfriend when you want to stop and make sure you use a lot of lubricant,email me back on what happens
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