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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi, I've had sex once before with someone I really loved, i lost my virginity to him, but i was nervous and kind of froze at the thought of it. He was big down there and it did hurt a bit. I'm starting to get a bit worried i'm too tight to have sex, as I've tried having it again but it still hurts a bit. I'm 16, am i not ready? do i need to relax? or am I just too tight?please give me some advice, sorry for the long question. xx
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reader, Devilish Angel  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 By asking if you're ready, if proves that you're not ready. When I lost my virginity, it was my decision. I chose to go out and lose it. I didn't question myself. I think that you should just wait until your body and your mind are in agreement. Its the only way you will enjoy it.
Just like how men are made in different sizes, women are made in different sizes down there too. Women do stretch to have babies so when you're ready, use lubricant and go slow.
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