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writes:How do we know if were in love and want to have sex? I know we're young and im a virgin and i think that my bf is. We've been going out for almost 4 months but we really really love each other and would do anything for each other. Any time i go to his house or he comes over to mine we start making out.So here are the main questions:-how do i know if he wants to have sex?-how do we know if we want to have sex?-how do we know if we are in love?thanks!
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (2 February 2008):
 If you don't know the answers to any of those questions, you are not old enough to have sex yet. You need to be old enough to have plans to raise a child if you should get pregnant, and the whole point OF sex is that it makes babies! Are you old enough to raise a child? Get a job? Did you pick him because he would make a great Dad? Having sex means being in a committed relationship and being old enough to be able to take on the world together, standing on your own two feet - just INCASE nature does take it's course and you DO become pregnant.
Wait until you are older and willing to take on all of the possibilities and responsibilities before you start your sex life. I told both of my children, at least wait until University. It's painful enough breaking up with someone when you have put your heart on the line and just made out a bit. It's even worse to walk down the hallways and bump into someone who has seen you naked. You have a better chance of making a relationship work when you know you own mind, and that is still a few years down the road. When you are ready to have sex, you won't be asking us these questions, 'cause in your heart and head, you'll already know the answers. Take Care.
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