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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey everybody,I'm 20 years old and I'm a virgin. I've had a few chances to lose it, mainly to tragic drunk girls or the trashy ones who offered back home. There's a girl I met and we hit it off really well. I started dating her and I think our relationship took off. I'm an old time romantic you might say, and I have quite a way with words if I do say so myself. I've charmed this girl...woman, in ways right out of a movie. She said this to me right out of the blue one night, and claimed how I was perfect. Recently one of her friends misunderstood something I said when I was talking to her online which led her to believe I was a virgin. One night my dream woman and I were chatting online and I was complimenting on how perfect she was when she brought up things from her past she regretted. She was talking how we were on 2 different levels in one area...and she wished she was on my level. She said it was a good thing. I'm having my doubts though. She told me what her friend said to her about our conversation and I told her that her friend misinterpreted it, which she did at the time. I don't know how to tell this girl I'm a virgin and our communication has dwindled the past couple of days since that conversation. Her texts to me are shorter, she doesn't use her pet names for me, and our conversations online aren't as entertaining...even though I try and use the same tactics that got me here that she loved. I'm getting a feeling of unrequited love...and it's not fun. I just don't know how to handle this. I can't imagine how something like that could ruin the whole relationship that we've built thus far. Thanks for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
This may have nothing to do with you being a virgin hunny, If you read between the lines, Her friend took it that you were a virgin while you were talking online and then your girl went on about her past regrets love, Meaning that she thinks you will not wish to be with her, I think she is so worried about what she may have done in the past that she feels when and if you no you wont want her anymore.
So she is probably more scared than you love.
You can only be honest and tell her what you have put at the beginning of your post, And if she is worried about her past then if you do love her remember its her past and that has nothing to do with your future so you must make sure she realises what happened in the past is left in the past hunny.. I hope Im thinking along the right lines hun, Id get this done out of the way love so you are both not worrying anymore and can continue your lovely relationship. TAKE CARE WITH LOVE AND PRAYERS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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