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*ean21
writes:Hello,there!i have a question,I have a problem coz im not virgin anymore then he doesn't appreciate it that im still a virgin at my age now...He knows all my past that i have many boyfriends before but i never give up to them of my virginity,i thought he will be proud of me and never left me but im wrong,we never been together now it really hurts me but i dont have any regrets coz i love him so much even he did this to me,im afraid that one day no guys will like me coz im not virgin anymore,Do a guy appreacite that her girlfriend is still a virgin then he's the first man?please help me...i need your advise...
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reader, jean21 +, writes (9 February 2008):
jean21 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u so much for all the advice here,thank u guys...takecare u all...
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Some men care a lot more than others.
A guy who's had a bunch of sex partners himself shouldn't have any right to care as far as I'm concerned.
But I also think a man/woman who has remained a virgin him/herself should have the right to demand the same from their partner too, if they choose.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 To a respectful man, wether or not you are a virgin shouldn't really matter, under most cercumstances xx
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reader, polarkite  +, writes (8 February 2008):
 I think, no matter what, whatever guy you are with should value and be sensitive to what is *important to you*. Especially when it comes to sex, after all sex is very sensitive.
It sounds like being a virgin and who you give it to is a part of your identity, and so your boyfriend should take this very seriously.
In general, guys will like you, virgin or not. In fact, I don't think this will have much of an impact as you think.
If you want a guy to appreciate that you are a virgin or only had one partner, then you'll have to *find* a sensitive guy who can really appreciate that. They do exist!
Feel better, okay!
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