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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Virginity category)

Virginity: Help and advice

Will this girl be able to tell I'm a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

29 November 2006 (M) - I am a 20 yr old male virgin.im seeing this girl now that is a little more experienced than me do you think she will be able to tell during sex ...

After I lost my virginity, I haven't stopped bleeding and it's been over 2 days!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6546 days ago

29 November 2006 (F) - Ok i was wondering... I am 18 and I just lost my virginity with this kid i have been dating for about four months. He was a virgin too and we did not use a condom. We stopped not long after he finally got in because I started bleeding really bad... ...

I'm a virgin, he isn't - I don't know how much he will expect from me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6566 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - i have been dating a guy for 5months but we havent had sex and its because i dont know how much he expects of me. i am still a virgin and he is not.... please please please give me some tips on what to do?...

She's teasing me about my penis

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

28 November 2006 (M) - hi there i am aged 19 and i have had sex for my 1st time just on thursday (23/11/06, but she wasnt a virgin and now shes teasin me about the length of my penis.... i have always have been worried about the size, and now im starting to feel self con...

He only went 'half' in - does that mean I'm still a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

26 November 2006 (F) - Yesterday me and my boyfriend of one year and 4 months have kinda had semi sex. But I'm not sure if I'm still a virgin. He didnt go all the way in, just a bit, so he didnt break my virginity. I bled a little, but I'm pretty sure he didn't break it. ...

I'm a virgin and having fears about sex with my bf! Will he leave me and what can I do about this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6571 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I am 18 years old and a virgin (iv only ever kissed),but my bf who iv been seein for 6months isnt. He has made it clear that he wants to have sex with me,but everytime we get close,I stop him. I become really uncomfortable and have no confidence at ...

First time sex and I orgasmed way too fast. I think it pissed her off! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

22 November 2006 (M) - I had sex for the first time last week not only with my girlfriend but also my first time. The problem was that I was lucky to make it last 5 minutes before I, basically, came out too soon. She says its ok but I'm pretty sure she's pissed off. Is ...

How do you have sex with a virgin without hurting her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6431 days ago

20 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend is a virgin and I am not. She wants to have sex but I have never had sex with a virgin. How should I have sex with her with ought hurting her. ...

We came close to making love. Do you think I'll have another chance and feel like I did that night again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6575 days ago

19 November 2006 (F) - Hi. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We're in our early twenties and we are very much in love. I'm a virgin, he's not, and he's been wonderful the entire time about not pressuring me into anything im not 100% comfortable with. ...

I think I'm ready to have sex with my boyfriend. Then I'm not. Then I am again! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6579 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - My bf wants us to sleep together, and I think I want to also, but at the same time, I'm scared of how attached it might make me. I already love him so much, and I don't know how I'd get by if we broke up ... I can't imagine loving him more. I...

He's a virgin but I want him! How long should I wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6579 days ago

17 November 2006 (F) - My sex life is aweful!!! I've been seing this guy but he's still a virgin and he says he doesn't think he wants to have sex with me and that he's scared. I'm really frustrated because i'm used to being sexually active and now he's not making me ...

Can I reduce the pain of losing my virginity by using my fingers?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6122 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Right, I'm quite scared about losing my virginity! But if I finger myself regularly will this make it hurt less? ...

Can't help feeling like my boyfriend is just being pleasant and cooperative because he wants to lose his virginity with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6576 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - My bf and I have been together off and on for a yr and 1/2 during grad school, and we've started talking about sleeping together. I know that probably sounds like a long time to wait, but it'll be the first time for both of us, and the relationship ...

How do I tell him I am not ready for sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6570 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - im 19 and a virgin ive been seeing this guy for 3 months now and im really shy how do i tell him im not ready for sex just yet without completely destroying him, i mean is there any nice way to put it...

We are both virgins but I just get so nervous whenever he touches me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6581 days ago

14 November 2006 (F) - I'm 21 and have never had sex or done anything that relates to sex. Ive recently started seeing a boy whos a bit younger than me and is also a virgin. I'm a very shy person and whenever my boyfriend touches me or asks me to touch him i freeze and ...

I don't want to stay a virgin for too long! Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6042 days ago

13 November 2006 (M) - hi i'm a virgin and dont have much luck with girls and am woried that if a wait too long it will be awkward as my partner would most likely have alot more experience in the bedroom than me and i would feel lost any advice is welcome thanks ...

I'm a virgin and I'm so scared to have sex, he can't get inside! What can I do to relax?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now and we both want to start having sex. I am really scared though b/c I am a virgin. I get so scared that whenever we have tried I am so tense he can't get inside me. My legs seem to refuse to ...

I'm a virgin and I want to break myself in first, before having sex. Any tips on how to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - im a virgin, but i dont want it to hurt the first time i have sex... i want to break myself in... because i would be embarrassed the first time and dont want it to be unpleasurable.. any tips on how to do this??...

Is losing one's virginity as bad as everyone makes it out to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6191 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - hi im a virgin and i was wondering to all those girls who have lost their virginity, is it as bad and scary as people make out? x...

Do women act oddly when they find out their bf is a virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6584 days ago

11 November 2006 (M) - do women act oddly if their partner tells them they're a virgin like in my case - me?...

Scared first time sex will hurt and that he'll compare my vagina to other girls, he's been with!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

10 November 2006 (F) - i am 16 nearly 17 and ive been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and i am still a virgin but my boyfriend aint. i want to have sex with him cause it feels right but im scared incase it hurts and i dont know if my vagina is weird compared to other ...

I was a virgin when I married... And I'm still a virgin two years later!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6482 days ago

9 November 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 30yrs old and have been married for two yrs. I was a virgin when I married and remain one now. I had not had sex before marriage because I considered it a sin and have been brought up in a loving religious family.I had man...

What are the emotional consequences of losing my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6199 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - hey im 17 and a virgin and i have been looking into losing my virginty, but whats with the emotional consequence that people keep bringing up, once iv had sex? i do see how it would effect me...advice please!...

We want to lose our virginity together, I need some advice please!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6586 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - I have resently started going out with this lad i have known for years. I liked him for ages and finally got the courage to tell him however we have been going out for 3 weeks and were both virgins, we came to the desion to lose our virginity ...

Do most guys shoot their load early the first few times?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

7 November 2006 (M) - Do most men have the problem premature ejaculation the first few times they have sex (like when your a virgin)...

My boyfriend is 30 and a virgin!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Ive just started seeing a guy, hes in his early 30s and has never had sex before. I guess I want to know, when we have sex for the first time, should I take charge? Or would that make him feel foolish (Im 22)? Should I be the one to initiate it or ...

I don't know if I am ready. Am I ready?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6588 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - hi im 19 and im still a virgin ive been seeing this guy for 3 months now and i know he wants to have sex but im just not sure, i really like him though! but i just dont know if im ready! help please?...

I'm 17 and a virgin! Is this a bad thing?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

5 November 2006 (F) - right im 17 i have only done sexual things once! and so ye im a virgin!! do you think this is kinda sad as im 17! and most people my age are sleeping around! i was to lose my virginty its just in scared and have no idea what im doing lol advice ...

My periods have changed now that I had sex and I'm scared!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6585 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - I've recently lost my virginity at the age of 14 although turning 15 in a few days, I've been with my bf for a 1 year and 8 months so I'm pretty sure this relationship will stay stable, although I came on my period a few days after and then it ...

Sex before marriage? Opinions please....

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6580 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Someone once told me that it would be better if I slept with a few guys before finding the one to marry. They told me that way I would really get to know men before I settle and get out of the lust stage. I'm almost 19 and I haven't slept with ...

Don't think he noticed I was a virgin but should I tell him the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6574 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - right, i was seeing this guy (i was his bootycall) when we first met i was a virgin. He asked me whether i was a virgin and i said no. The thing is i just wanted to have sex with him coz i liked him a lot and i knew sex would be painful and i wanted ...

Our sex life has deminished! I don't want to be pushy or say something that would hurt her - please HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6593 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - Hello DearCupid users! First of all, i'd like to thank anyone who offers advice. I thought a little bit of anonymous help would help me reach a sensible conclusion to the "problem". A little about myself, I'm 18, male, and happy in life. My pers...

How can I take our relationship to the next level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6594 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - What is the best way to initiate intercourse with my gay partner? We've "slept" with each other in the sense that we masturbate each other to climax, and do everything but actual anal intercourse. How can I get started with this?...

Tomorrow I lose my virginity.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6581 days ago

1 November 2006 (M) - on thursday, november 2nd, i will be losing my virginity to my ex girlfriend, and I am nervous, but in an extremely good way, because i know it is right for both of us. is there anything i can do to stop the nervousness? i smoke cigarettes, so maybe ...