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Can I reduce the pain of losing my virginity by using my fingers?

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Question - (16 November 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 16 February 2008)
A female , anonymous writes:

Right, I'm quite scared about losing my virginity! But if I finger myself regularly will this make it hurt less?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008):

omg, it still hurts when he fingers you. no lie. like with me, i wanted to cry but i didnt although it hurt soo bad. people might say it hurts just a little bit but they are lieing. it hurts alot and you might be sore for a few days. even the 2nd and 3rd time will hurt cause you will still be pretty tight

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A female reader, Arabyesque +, writes (16 November 2006):

If you don't mind breaking your own hymen (pretty much losing your virginity to yourself), go for it. It will definitely make first-time sex hurt a lot less. But you don't have to do it "regularly" for it work. If your boyfriend fingers you twice or thrice before the first time you have sex, you should be fine too. Chill out-- losing your virginity hurts a bit but not THAT much.

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A female reader, bby_gal06 +, writes (16 November 2006):

bby_gal06 agony aunthiya

yeah it will becuase you havent had a penis up there before it will be tight so if you finger yourself it will loosin it

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2006):

If you finger yourself, or have your boyfriend finger you it will make you less tight, making it less of a squeeze when it's a penis in there!

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