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Archived questions from: 25 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I already know he's a womanizer. Should I go for it?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I am in a relationship with a divorced man who is well educated. I love him and had sex with him. Recently he has been saying about his past relationships and it appears that he had sex with two other women when he was married just because he had a ...

Girlfriend's past: threesomes and drugs!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hi my names Sean and i've got a problem. My girl friends 26 and I'm 24. She's slept with around 30/40 guys a similar number to me. I'm not bothered by that, but recently we were talking about past experiences and she told me she's been involved in 2 ...

How do I save this relationship from retroactive jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I just don't know what to do. I love my boyfriend very, very much. I just wish our relationship was normal. He has issues with my past. I was never a slut, I was a virgin until I started dating him. However, I did kiss some guys before him, guys who ...

How do I stop wondering what he's doing when I'm not around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - ive been with this guy for 2 years and ive caught him cheating on me twice. but last time he left me for a girl because i didnt want premarital sex but then 4 mnths later he came back to me and apologized i took him back. But i told him that i am ...

Distant boyfriend. Is something going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 5 months now but lately he has seemed really distant. He rarely talks to me anymore, when we walk together he doesn't even try to hold my hand, and then last night after talking on the phone for ...

I love an extreme jerk. Should I go back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I've known this boy.. i'll just call him uhm. David. I've known David for 3 years, my best friend in middle school's cousin. It began with me talking to him just as a friend, and eventually, we started talking more. We were going out for about 6 ...

Should I stop spying and let trust develop?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hey everyone, I have another issue. You see, I have sent my girlfriend a keylogger and it was secretly installed on her pc. The thing is that I know she wouldn't be cheating on me, but I just needed to have evidence to verify that she was bei...

Help getting over insecurities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - I need some help getting over insecurities. I've been with my boyfriend for about 16 months, yet still I panic whenever I know he's around other girls. He's never cheated on me so I really don't have any reason not to trust him, but for some reason ...

Why did he lie to me about the way he felt about her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - ok.....this is a realllllllly long one but m DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... n we've been togther for over 3 n half yrs now....n its always been in a long dis...

How do you tell guys you don't like certain things about them without hurting their ego?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Well here's the thing. I am currently with my boyfriend of almost 2 years. He is about 11 years older than I am and I'm in my 20's. I am very happy with him he treats me better than most other guys but lately he's starting to be a bit controlling. ...

I am scared of potential legal action against me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - i am with this girl for 2 years and we are very close but i dont love her and are just friends... i want to tell u that the kissing was a mutual decision and i just let her touch on the surface of my pants on my private part.. i am 22 and the girl ...

I can't stop thinking that our relationship is doomed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (?) - Hi I am a 21 year old who is terribly in love with the girl of my dreams. I constanly think life will find a way of taking us apart and there is no chance in hell we can be together thoughts like these hurt me alot and I tell my Girlfriend ...

My husband slapped me and left for the titty bar!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - How can I finally say I am done My husband has a drinking problem and addicted to pornografy. Today he slap me and left to a adult entertaiment I know because I call him he was there...

Why does he still accuse me of looking at other men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - After one year of being together, why would a man still accuse his significant other of looking at other men and trying to show off her body? I can reassure everyone, I do not look at other men. In fact, I see people. I do not look at people t...