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Archived questions from: 21 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Porn addiction vs wanting a real relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a man I have fallen in love with for nearly 3 years.I think he has an addiction to porn and I can't discuss it with him, but I need to understand more before I decide to walk away. We have both come from long term marriages a...

My girlfriend hid the fact she had a son. Could this indicate a potential pattern of lying?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Girlfriend of three months tells me via text message that she has a son. We just started getting slightly serious, and I still feel a little lied to. I am 25, she 23, I have no idea how old her son is. I had no idea that she had a son, not e...

My husband had a text affair with another woman and I can't take it anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi all, yes it's me again!!! I don't know if I mentioned before that the woman my h/band was having a 'text affair' with said that at least it was the first time she'd done it unlike my h/band?? Anyway, if so I might have mentioned that h...

Is this guy playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - A boy I like have a girlfriend. He does not know I know he have a girlfriend. But I know he likes me and he said heis interested in me some times. We were dating four three times. When we are together I see clearly how much he likes me and there ar...

I flashed him online and now I'm worried he'll put it on Youtube...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5507 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Hi.I have something worry about last night. I had met with that guy on the internet. We chat at online last night. Its our first time chatting. We was chatting about 3 hours and we have little conversation about sex. And I've show him my upper body ...

She has lied the whole time, should I still be with her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Hello. Just wondering if I could get some advice please. I met a woman on a dating site and she told me she has not had sex with anyone for over 6 years. She told me she did not bother due to being cheated on in a previouse relationship. I t...

I have low self esteem, slept with another guy and know I should tell my b/f but I'm afraid!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5482 days ago

21 October 2009 (?) - Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. I love him so much; he is gorgeous, intelligent good job etc. I could not ask for someone better. From what he has told me he feels the same way about me. However we have big relationship pro...

Am I just being hormonal or is it a bit odd that he wont tell me who was giving him a lift home?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - My fiance is just coming back from working from home. Im in the last stages of pregnancy and we love each other very much. Hes usually really open about things and tells me what he is doing. He told me on the phone that he was getting a lift hom...

My partner has been sending sexy emails to women, is he having an affair or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I'm 25, and my boyfriend's 24, we met at a gay men's football club, and have been together for 18 months now. We moved in together in March, he proposed to me and we started planning for our civil partnership, and life was good up until last Wedne...

She left her ex for me, so what is the chance she will do the same thing again to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5513 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - Hi I just want to know if im being stupid, paranoid or whether im justified in my thoughts. My current girlfriend left her ex to be with me. We knew eachother for years, the whole time she was with her ex, which was 6 years. Anyway i always t...

Is my boyfriend cheating or am I being selfish?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Please help me, I'm having a bit of a problem with my boyfriend and this girl he has been texting, it started a couple of months ago when he started talking to a girl that he has known for a while but I don't know at all. He told me once he had a cr...

How can I make her understand that I am not comfortable with her seeing her ex's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - The other day my gf of 4 years (we have known each other well for 9 years) went to see an ex of hers for coffee at his place. She omitted to mention it at the time and it came up in conversation last night. This ex was someone she had and ...

I don't want this feeling anymore!

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21 October 2009 (M) - so there is this girl who at the moment i am crazy for. the thing is i'm pretty sure she doesnt like me. it all started a few months ago. we had always been friends but lately she started talking to me a lot and always wanting to hang out. i just ...

I want this to work since I can't prove he cheated. Any ideas on getting my confidence in him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship with this man for over 3 years now, I'm very committed to this relationship. I've had a hidden fear that he's cheated on me since sometime in our second year together because our sex life drastically changed. Then last ...

I'm afraid of running him off by requesting things for myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5505 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I recently being three months ago started dating a guy 9 years younger than me I am 29 he is 20. I lost my father on fathers day and then my husband left me 2 weeks after his passing. I was freinds with the guy I am dating now for a...

Did he cheat because he doesn't believe I won't hurt him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5514 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been going out since May 2nd. I had a feeling 2 months ago he had an affair. so one night we were laying in bed and I asked him if he had ever had sex with her. he said no way not with all those stretch marks and flab. I ...