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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Please suggest a solution to this! He knows I care about him, he must care about me too, if he keeps in touch, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Here I go again. My x bf has been texting me he says we will be "forever friends" but he is living with a woman he met and started seeing when my mother was dying and I couldnt/wouldnt devote 100% of my time to him. He wants to meet up with me ...

She's still friends with her ex. Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable given the circumstances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - I would like to get some perspective/other people's views on the following situation: My girlfriend has an ex who she is still friends with. They broke up four years ago and didn't see each other for a while, but for the last two years she had se...

Is it going to take forever for him to share himself with me on a more intimate level?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I will try to be breif. Currently going out with a man who I really like in every way after a year of being friends but is wanting to take things very slowly (which is great) and means that he must like me a lot. However; he wants a lot of fem...

How do I open the lines of communication?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Okay I'm sorry in advance for this being so long... but its been a long 6 years lol.. my girlfriend started staying with me at my parents when she was 16 and I was 17. She lived out of the school ddistrict and her mom fell ill with cancer. (She ...

Can this just be an innocent friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I have been dating a man for about nine months. We met when I was going through a divorce. When we initially started dating, he was seeing someone he had dated in the past. During this time, he went to visit this person, and he told me that he ...

Is a woman's worth tied to her breast size?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I have many issues with my body. I hate having small breasts, because men may accept small ones, but secretly they all want big! My boyfriend masturbates to big chested women. Also I don't have all the time in the world to exercise, sure I...

Should I look for the guest house or end the relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - am a young guy of 22, i met this girl on the net. i asked her to send her picture to me and she refused. as time goes on, we see each other face to face.she's not the type i want because i need a reasonable and responsible girl. when we are ...

He said she was only a fling yet I found emails saying he wanted to marry her, how do I know that I'm not just another fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - ok.....this is a really long one but Im DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... and we've been together for over 3 and a half yrs now....and its always been in a ...

This feels so wrong to be flirting so openly with him while his girlfriend has no idea!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5508 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Ok, so this is a very complicated situation. I have been in a relationship for the past 9 months. It is a very dysfunctional relationship, so we're taking some time apart right now. When I first met this guy, we started hanging out with his cous...

Is this normal behavior for a guy in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year and a half now. Things in the begining were great, of course, as with any new relationship. But it was our 2nd go at it, because the first time we met (on a blind date, which was cool) and dated ...

Should I forgive her and trust again?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5509 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hi everyone, please any advice at all would be much appriciated!!, sorry this might be abit drawn out but I need serious help with my love life. I met a girl when I was 12, it was love a first sight for both of us and immediatley we hit it off, for...