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writes:well, I have been in a relationship for more than a year now. I love my bf so much. I can't imagine living without him a sec. One his friend is getting divorce( a woman). She came to talk to him. he was giving her advice, and i was here too. before she left she said to him, i might be bugging you for i need friend to talk to. I felt so down after she left. I am now feeling so insecure, i don't know if it's me or it's the way my bf spoke to her made me feel this way. I am getting really worried.Can anyone help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): keep your friends close and your potential enemies closer.... Your boyfriend sounds like a decent guy who can be trusted, but try befriending this woman as well. My ex was always the "go to" guy for his female friends because he was good at giving advice, but 3 of his female friends at different times hit on him. So befriend her so you have more control and less worry
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 I've been in a committed long-term relationship before, but still kept my friends (of both genders) and been there for them when needed. Not for one second did I entertain the idea of cheating on my girlfriend. I just didn't give up my preexisting friends.
It sounds like your guy is being supportive of a friend who's in a really rough spot right now, and she's leaning on a friend for help and advice. Sure, this is another woman, but she's also just a friend.
Unless your boyfriend gives you reason to doubt him, please trust him.
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