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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm in dire need of explaining to my boyfriend that I am not cheating on him. He says that when we have sex that sometimes my labia hangs and is more loose than other times. Is that normal? I don't know why it is that way sometimes, and I am so insecure about it now. he wants to break up with me over this. He is breaking up with me over this. I don't know what to do or how to show him that i'm not!! I am getting close to 30 years old, i'm sure that age has some sort of factor in how my vagina looks? I don't want to lose him over this assumption.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2009): is he for real? dump him quick!!!!!!!!!! go find a real caring loving man. guess what, they actually exist.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 yeah - what everyone else said! Dump his baby arse and get a real man! .
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (10 December 2009):
 He's full of crap and is making dumb excuses to break up. Tell him that if he doesn't want to be with you, start walking so the next man can step up and be in his place.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): I agree, this does not sound rational! Does his penis get the exact same length and hardness every time you have sex? Things just don't work like that LOL You are better off without him and trust me, he will leave you sooner or later if he is looking for something so he can justify leaving the relationship, he won't give up on it...sorry hun.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (10 December 2009):
It sounds to me that he's using that as an excuse to break up with you. He may want to break up with you for other reasons, instead he would rather turn it around on you that you're suddenly cheating on him while also making you feel insecure because he's not man enough to just be straight up with you.
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