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writes:My guy friend and I talk to each other a lot. He used to wink at me, joke around and flirt with me a lot. I really thought he actually liked me. Sadly enough, I like him a lot. On the contrary, he's always distant with me when he's around his friend. Additionally, sometimes, he can be aloof when we're alone. Nonetheless, we still keep talking. Today, I found out that he's not actually serious about me. However, he didn't tell me this himself; I found out from other sources. Now, I feel so bad just for liking him. I feel worthless, upset and unloved. How can I get over this horrible horrible temperament?
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reader, CandyCurves  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 Funny thing,I'm going through the exact same thing.
I know its really difficult, cause this person means a friend and more. What I am doing at the moment is staying away from him, hoping I'll forget whatever I ever saw in him.I know its hard, when you know the person so well ..
I am afraid all you we can do is give it time.If youre finding it hard PM me
Best of Luck
Candycurves
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): I don't know how good of a friend this guy is, but he shouldn't be flirting with you or making passes if he isn't interested in a real relationship. Depending on what sort of jokes he's been cracking; he may just be looking for "a (meaningless) romp in the hay." Also, don't get so emotionally attached to him, knowing that he deliberately mislead you and your emotions. There are plenty of other good guys out there (who won't tease your heart and mind).
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