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Archived questions from: March, 2021 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Its time to call out my friend for her terrible behavior

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1321 days ago

31 March 2021 (F) - What am I to do ? I have a « friend ». For years I’ve known that she sometimes badmouths me behind my back. Today I got a piece of written proof. SHe has a terrible temper and she looks for excuses. It’s never her fault; it’s always someone e...

I fear my husband will cheat on my while overseas

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1337 days ago

28 March 2021 (F) - My husband of 10 years is currently residing in Spain because of his work. His tenure is 4 months and he is returning in May. I have been suffering extreme anxiety worrying if he is having his sexual needs met there without me. 4 months is a long t...

I want to become a nurse but my husband isn't supportive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1338 days ago

28 March 2021 (F) - I think my relationship is dying but I don’t know how to save it. My partner and I have been having relationship issues for almost 18 months and it’s not helping my mental health as I have PND (being in a pandemic with several lockdowns also h...

Sister in Law Marriage Issues

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1338 days ago

27 March 2021 (F) - My friends sister in law is still a pain in their marriage I hate the way she can make her feel at times. Hello everyone my friend has been married now 6 years hubby is disabled and she has an adult special needs daughter she has posted o...

How do I dial back on the troubled relationship I have with my sister?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1337 days ago

27 March 2021 (F) - Thanks to all who respond, I am having a bit of a time with my sister. I really like and admire her but we are not all that compatible. I find her a borderline bully at times. She is kind but she talks to me in this tough direct manner and I fin...

My girlfriend refuses to get treatment for mental illness and her behaviour and attitude is really getting to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1334 days ago

26 March 2021 (M) - Hi and thanks My gf and I have been together over a year. She is very moody which is getting to me. She will be sweet and loving, then aloof and rude. She does suffer from mental illness and chooses not to be treated. I try ot encourage...

My partner has a problem with me keeping a single, small picture of my late husband in my apartment

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

26 March 2021 (F) - Dear cupid and everyone, i just wanna ask something. Is it really that bad to honor your late husband with just one Single little picture of him in your own apartment just for a respect? Beside you and your new Partner are not living in your a...

I want to help my wife with her troubled work situation but I am unsure how to

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

26 March 2021 (M) - My wife Sabrina works in the film/TV industry in Hollywood, and her job effectively can't be done from home, or not very well (she hates doing it over Zoom) and I'm suspecting she may be depressed; she usually loves her job. My wife works in a ...

My long-term partner Maria constantly thinks I'm checking out guys and we've argued over it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

25 March 2021 (M) - My long-term partner Maria constantly thinks I'm checking out guys and we've argued over it. I've been with Maria since 2015; she's a professional model, although her work is largely catalogs and sportswear, nothing remotely titillating desp...

My fiance forgot he was still married??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1340 days ago

24 March 2021 (F) - MOD NOTE: For the sake of those who love to call out posts being "troll"...I have my doubts about this but let it through anyways so save the comments please!!! My fiance John told me last night that he had a big confession to make; the confessi...

I'm unsure what to do about a female stalking me. The cops won't do anything!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1327 days ago

23 March 2021 (M) - I'm a delivery driver, and been doing the job for 14 years now, got it at the end of the last recession, but it's a stable job. I've got a problem which is causing me a lot of stress; a female nurse is stalking me, and the cops won't do a thing...

Girlfriend texting guy she never mentioned before

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1343 days ago

22 March 2021 (M) - Hey there. So my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, and I need some advise. She is texting some guy on a regular basis (I see the snaps coming in on her phone when we're together sometimes), and that in it self doesn't bother m...

Did I just make up everything in my head? He finally told me we are just a FWB relationship

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1339 days ago

20 March 2021 (F) - I've met a guy four months ago and we hit it off from the very start. We texted multiple times a day, every day first thing in the morning, last thing before bed. We went on official dates, slept over at each other's (had amazing sex), cooked meals ...

My fiance is getting threats from his employees because he's telling them they will have to stop working from home

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1348 days ago

19 March 2021 (F) - My fiance took over a local business in August 2019, but couldn't legally start running it until January 2020, per the contract signed during the sale. I'm an American expat in South Africa, been here since 2013. Then came COVID19, and well, h...

My fiance and I are considering become a throuple with her ex girlfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1345 days ago

18 March 2021 (M) - I've been with my fiancee Becky for 8 years, we got engaged in 2018 and are getting married in 2022; it was planned for 2020 but got cancelled, first due to our work schedules from January to March, and now the coronavirus pandemic. I'm 38, my wif...

Me, Him & His Sugar Mama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1072 days ago

16 March 2021 (F) - So back in 2009 I went on holiday for a few months to my homeland. My father owns a home there so that’s where I went to stay. A man who I didn’t know came to the house one morning looking for my father, he said he used to work for him and noticed ...

How can my family help my sister with an abusive mentally relationship? The police won't step in

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1351 days ago

15 March 2021 (F) - I have three sisters. One of my sisters, Victoria (not real name), who's 36, left her partner due to domestic violence (after a 1.5-year long relationship, they moved in together not long into the relationship and she only moved in with him to g...

I am declining to go to a wedding. What is an appropriate response if asked why I can't attend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

14 March 2021 (M) - I have a "friend" that I known my whole life because our dads work for the same company. We went to the same high school and hung out often. As an adult, I can't stand him. He always wants to go places but wants other people to pick up his tab....

I think my girlfriend is lying to me again she has a history of doing so

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 1347 days ago

13 March 2021 (M) - Can anyone help me with the math here because i think i'm being lied too by the woman i'm currently seeing. She text me good morning at 08.00, then another text at 08.57 asking how day was going. At 09.36 she text and said she was having bre...

Boyfriend and I fought and haven't spoken in a week. His bday is coming what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1352 days ago

12 March 2021 (F) - I quarreled with my boyfriend a week ago He asked me to call him late at night, but I couldn't because my sister was asleep So he was upset and made it a reason not to speak to me for so long.His birthday these days I don't know what to do, w...

Should I report my housemate to his employers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1355 days ago

12 March 2021 (F) - Okay everyone I know I’m being bitter but I’m just really pissed off at my housemate. Throughout this pandemic we’ve worked from home, but the thing is, he doesn’t actually do any work. He will tend to his emails in the morning for around 10 minutes ...

How do I help my daughter with her ex making accusations?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1357 days ago

9 March 2021 (F) - I have a 17-year-old daughter, Kaitlyn, and she told me some quite disturbing news the other day. I've never had any real issue with Kaitlyn being a lesbian; Kaitlyn told me that it's who she is, but she hates the politicization of LGBT issues. ...

I don't love my live in boyfriend anymore but I can't get him to leave

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

8 March 2021 (F) - Hey everyone. Hoping someone can give me some advice in regards to my relationship. I'm a 32 year old woman and my boyfriend is the same age. We've been together coming up 5 years. Our relationship was on and off at the beginning. He would b...

My boyfriend is jealous of my deceased husband. I can't take the stress

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

7 March 2021 (F) - I really need help and advice. My bf ( partner ) and me are almost 6 years together already. I am widow and he is divorced. His ex wife cheated on him with another man. He dont wanna get married anymore because of his divorce he lost a lots, "money ...

He's lied to me repeatedly. How do I trust him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1362 days ago

5 March 2021 (F) - I come from a strict but very loving Indian family. I ended up in a relationship with a white male during lockdown 2020. So since June 2020 (had spoke online for months prior) we had been communicating. August 2020, he opened he had lied to me ...

How can I move forward in this relationship if she keeps talking about her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1361 days ago

5 March 2021 (M) - Im 27years old and never been in a serious relationship and the women i have dated have always had mental health problems or low self esteem.Anyway during this pandemic I met this woman online, she is 25 years old...we connected 2 months ago....we ...

I don't feel loved anymore and I'm always worried that he's cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1363 days ago

4 March 2021 (F) - I don't think my partner actually wants me anymore. I am someone who enjoys cuddles, and kisses and wee bits of affection. My partner never does that unless he wants sex. Even sitting watching a movie together and I will want a cuddle ect and he...

How to deal with elderly mom who accuses me of stealing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1361 days ago

4 March 2021 (M) - My mom will be 78 this year. She is in decent physical condition, but dealing with the beginning of dementia. Despite what the doctors say, she still thinks there is a physical problem with her and that there will be some surgery, some drug, or...

How do you guys deal with partners complaining about weight.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1359 days ago

3 March 2021 (M) - How do you guys deal with partners complaining about weight. Like I’m getting so fed up. I personally have been getting anxiety as I have not been able to hit my goals due to lockdown. So I spent some money and purchased some equipment. It’s ...

I respect my boyfriend's need for space but my anxiety gets the better of me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1365 days ago

2 March 2021 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend a couple of years. We've lived together for half of that and have a dog that we both love. I've always struggled with insecurity and anxiety and have been let down a lot, which I'm getting counselling for but the one thin...