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Archived questions from: January, 2021 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Any advice for dealing with an unpleasant coworker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1397 days ago

29 January 2021 (F) - There is a person who I work with ,who is a very funny comical witty character but hes can be very unpleasant. all staff say the same that it's just the way he is ,dont take it personally ,that it's just his humour and that hes like that with ...

My married boyfriend wants me to become his 2nd wife

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1372 days ago

28 January 2021 (F) - Hi, Aunts! I apologise in the first place that this isn’t going to be a short or “ethical” post (in the opinion of the most). I met my bf 3 years ago at work and he was my boss. We were very good friends and had gotten married recently back th...

How do I deal with a very unsupportive partner?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

21 January 2021 (M) - Hello Cupiders, How do I deal with a very unsupportive partner? I have always aimed for the best for both of us, fitness, finance, mental and emotional health. Lately I have noticed my long term partner has never supported me in my decisi...

Ex got upset and called me insensitive. Do I owe him more?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

21 January 2021 (F) - My ex had been dealing with a lot after our breakup and after a week of not talking he reached out asking to get dinner because he needed some company after a tough week (death of his family member). I said I couldn’t but that I’m sorry he’s dealing ...

Our relationship is "mommy is the boss" and I want to change it to "We are the bosses"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1398 days ago

17 January 2021 (M) - I met my partner about 3 years ago, she has children from a past relationship (8 year old boy and 11 year old girl). We are expecting a baby in the next 2 months. The children are constantly speaking to my partner about what they are going to do/ ...

Why is my sister so cruel to me after all of these years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1406 days ago

16 January 2021 (F) - My sister and I are in our mid twenties. She is 2 years older than me. We haven’t gotten along since I was about 9 years old. This is when I started formulating my own mind and opinions and stopped allowing her to boss me around. She has always a...

Boyfriend's comment have me wondering if I want to continue relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1405 days ago

16 January 2021 (F) - I am in my early 50s and my boyfriend is 5 years younger. We both have grown up kids. He is financially much better off than me. He has successful couple businesses, owns few houses. I think his worth is couple millions dollars. His living habit...

We are being kicked out and need new place to live but I no longer want his mom to live with us

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1400 days ago

16 January 2021 (F) - Long story short I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16 years old. We had our daughter at 21 and I moved in with him and his mom. First 2 years I didn't work and took care of my daughter. For 5 years now I have been working and paying rent and ...

Boyfriend said he didn't like our fighting and needed to think about it. What does that mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

15 January 2021 (F) - My bf and I have had an amazing relationship the past year. Everything is great besides our arguments here and there. We had our first big fight the other night leading to me leaving his place to go home and cool off. The next few days without me ...

My parents are not accepting that we are moving across the country. I feel badly for hurting them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1410 days ago

14 January 2021 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles this is my previous post http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-family-is-mean-behind-my-back-but.html#provide_answer Update we finally have enough money to move out and will be moving to where my husband grew up which is acro...

How do you politely get out of a one-sided conversation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

13 January 2021 (F) - I'm currently living with my adult brother and 70-year-old father due to the lockdowns, and have been since March. Being in close proximity to each other has made some issues really obvious. A huge one is that my dad talks all the time about things ...

Does anyone else have experience with anyone with narcissistic rage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

12 January 2021 (F) - Thank you for any help offered. People are busy so it is appreciated. I have a friend who I have been or now had been friends with for several years. She has been through a bad time of late having lost custody of her daughter due to mental h...

My girlfriend has too much time on her hands and its driving me crazy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

10 January 2021 (M) - Hi there I wrote before about my girlfriend always wanting to talk on the phone and text. I had a discussion with her and she said she would try not to be so clingy. Unfortunately that didn't go far. Today she said I don't message much a...

I can't stand my teenage kids anymore!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

10 January 2021 (M) - I can't stand my teenage kids anymore. All they do is expect everything and act entitled and I've had enough. I'm out of work right now and cannot afford much my wife works but doesn't make alot of money. I'm thinking of just letting go and not ...

Everything I do in life is wrong especially when it comes to men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1416 days ago

10 January 2021 (F) - I feel like everything I do is wrong all my life, especially with males. Even in Elementary school boys were basically separated unless they were relatives. There were a few times where we did normal things but even if I just sat and listened to ...

My boyfriend finally proposed after 15 years and now I'm not sure if I want to marry him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1415 days ago

10 January 2021 (F) - Please could I get some advice on my love life? I'm so torn, basically i've waited years for my boyfriend to propose, in fact i'd more or less given up on the idea and emotionally exited the relationship but now he's suddenly decided he wants...

He proposed I said yes but I don't want to marry him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

9 January 2021 (F) - My boyfriend of a year proposed. I said yes because his family was right there. I don’t want to marry him and I’m freaking out because I’m not married. He’s just not what I want....I don’t know what to do . He’s also still married to his first wif...

I feel like the man who left his wife for me is regretting it. Can anyone tell me what to do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

8 January 2021 (F) - My married boyfriend left his wife for me. We were having an affair for 8 years prior. He moved in with me in November. But instead of feeling happy about this new beginning like I am, he acts hot and cold. One day he is loving and attentive and the ...

Trouble with a friend who borrows money and won't pay it back

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1413 days ago

8 January 2021 (F) - Hello So, my friend seems to have money issues. I don't mind helping out sometimes but recently I found out after I borrowed 200.00 a mutual friend also gave 200.00 so I sort of expected mine back. However, she said shes broke and needs it. A...

Is my boyfriend of 8 years cheating on me again or am I paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

7 January 2021 (F) - I've been with boyfriend since 2013. We are now both in our 30s. We moved in together pretty quickly. I found out a year into the relationship that he had been lying to and had been chatting to girls online. I told him I was leaving to start my life ...

Should I Leave or am I to blame?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1403 days ago

5 January 2021 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years. I had insecurities in the beginning but I worked on them and haven't has issues like that for at least 2 years. He first became extremely angry (name calling and violence) in the beginning and said that I had ...

My family will not get their noses out of my life even though I am 21

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

4 January 2021 (F) - I started college in fall of 2019 and my parents changed their mind last minute to say I was going to school in my hometown instead of Toronto because it was too far away and no one we knew went there. That was the point! I did two years here in ...

My LDR girlfriend's moodiness is getting to me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1423 days ago

2 January 2021 (M) - Hi So I have been with a lady about 1 year. We live in different states and due to covid we havent seen one another in along time. I do still keep in contact when I can. I work full time and she is on disability. She finds things to compl...

How can I be positive when inlaws are so negative?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

1 January 2021 (F) - I would like some advice please on how to deal with negative people when you’re trying to better yourself and become more positive. 2020 took a real toll on my anxiety as I’m sure it did with many people. I became a real negative person which I ...