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Archived questions from: December, 2020 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

I feel so alone and being controlled by my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1408 days ago

31 December 2020 (F) - Dear cupid I have been married for past 3 years and dated my husband 3 years prior. Lately i feel so alone and being controlled by my husband. Its always his way or high way, never seem to take any of my input though we both own the house , i ea...

Is the relationship worth it or should I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1408 days ago

30 December 2020 (M) - Here is the short version for those who don't want too much background: In a relationship for 10 years. Relationship is good 95% of the time but any time conflict arises and my girlfriend gets mad she breaks up, says she doesn't want to be with ...

I am struggling with how to handle her mood swings, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

28 December 2020 (M) - Please can someone offer me some clarity and maybe some advice. MY wife and I have been married 10 years, we have a 7 year old boy who is pretty much perfect and no trouble at all. I have an older daughter in her early 30's lives away and she has...

I’m trapped in a love affair!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

27 December 2020 (F) - What to do if you are trapped in a relationship 3 Well I meat a guy online on a dating side went on a date etc Hit it off pretty well I asked him about his past relationship to make sure that he is really single, and how long he has been single ...

Why does my girlfriend need to talk to this older guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1409 days ago

25 December 2020 (M) - My girlfriend talks to this older guy. She is 24 and he is late 40s. When I found out, she said I don’t need to know what i don’t need to worry about - she is very loyal to me. I did not like the fact she spoke to him daily. I became increasingly ...

How to rebuild our friendship? She misunderstood concern for being pesky

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

24 December 2020 (M) - Hello I am writing to get your help to resurrect my friendship with a work colleague who works for me. Basically we got to know each other since she had some problems at work and I helped her resolve it. She also had some issues with her present...

Why does My Mum’s boyfriend blatantly lie all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1417 days ago

23 December 2020 (F) - My Mum’s new boyfriend talks so much BS I can’t tell if he’s just joking around or being deadly serious about it. Anyone who is familiar with the Inbetweeners, he’s basically Jay but in his early fifties. He reckons he’s done so much in his life or ...

My always broke boyfriend asked for money and when I offered him some he said it wasn't nearly enough

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1412 days ago

23 December 2020 (F) - Hello So I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and hes always broke. Always some scenario happening. I have grown tired of it. His most recent request is hes broke can I help him. I offered 80.00 and he declined. He said it's not enoug...

My daughter is fragile and pregnant but her behavior of not remembering the past the way it actually happened bothers me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1419 days ago

22 December 2020 (F) - I would appreciate advice, please, about an issue related to my daughter who is now 32 and in a steady job, has a long term partner (7 years) and who I generally have a good relationship with but who I am concerned about. I may be enabling ...

Is it ok for her to act like this when she has a partner?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

20 December 2020 (M) - My partner and I are both 40. We’ve been together for about 5 months. She’s a fairly recent divorcee who I was friends with for 10 years before we got together. I adore her, but she flirts with other men and it does my head in. She was abused...

I feel like I lost a lover even though we never met in person

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1414 days ago

19 December 2020 (M) - Hello I've matched with a guy on tinder and asked for his WhatsApp number and we started chatting we both agreed on first getting to know each other better, we have a few things in common both introverted and both the boring type eg.dont have a ...

I don't think our relationship is going to last since he doesn't even want to try

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1424 days ago

19 December 2020 (F) - Myself and my partner have been together for just over 7 years. We have an 18 month old son. This year has really tested our relationship, well I’d say we started having arguments and stuff since having our son. The sleep deprivation was and stil...

I can't be the only reason someone lives or dies

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1420 days ago

19 December 2020 (F) - I am in a fairly new relationship however me and this guy have been great friends for the past 2 years so it feels like we have been together for a lot longer than 4 months. Recently he has become really clingy and shown some things I think are ...

How can I help my boyfriend get past the guilt of leaving his wife for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1421 days ago

18 December 2020 (F) - My boyfriend left his wife for me. It was a 30 year marriage. His children are grown and have families of their own. He is happy with his decision but can't help feeling guilty for what he's done to his wife, kids and grandkids. He was not happy in ...

Is anyone ever too busy really if they are interested in more than friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1422 days ago

18 December 2020 (M) - Hi! So basically I'm very interested in a girl, we seem to match well, we have fun when we meet, but I feel it's not really progressing. Whenever I talk to her, she is very warm, thoughtful, asking lots of questions, suggesting things we ...

Is this a toxic relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1425 days ago

15 December 2020 (F) - I’ve been with my significant other for 13 years, and with my history of questions I’ve posted here, you can see it hasn’t been all paradise This pandemic had showed me a lot. I work In healthcare so when the pandemic happened In March and things...

I cringe when my boyfriend touches me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1429 days ago

12 December 2020 (F) - Me and my bf have been together for 7 years. I'd say 3 of those have been really happy. The last four years have been trying due to family problems on my side. It's been very stressful. I ended up having panic attacks and severe anxiety. I went to ...

How do I help my son out of his toxic relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

11 December 2020 (M) - I’m really not sure if anyone can help, but has anyone ever been in a toxic relationship and know what to do to get someone away from one for good? My son is currently in a joke of a relationship with his girlfriend and they just seem to be going ...

Should I forgive my abusive brother-in-law?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1432 days ago

8 December 2020 (F) - My sister has been with her fiancé for 16 years. He helped my sister raise 3 of her children from another man. They then had a child together. Through the last few years, my sister has shared with me he has put his hands on her when he gets drunk. ...

My mental health is suffering and its contributing to my relationship turning toxic

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1435 days ago

6 December 2020 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 2 years. We've recently moved in together but things haven't been good for almost a year. I've had anxiety and depression most my life but can usually manage it, however with everything that'...

Dating a married woman now she suddenly becomes distant, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1426 days ago

6 December 2020 (M) - hi, been dating a married woman for a month, but chatted for few years before meeting, know everything about each other, even her husband her family and her husbands family kept hassling her and asking about me (because they keep seeing me ...

I'm upset with myself for falling for a player who doesn't want to wear condoms

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1428 days ago

5 December 2020 (F) - Yesterday I slept with a guy I've been seeing for the first time. We were almost naked when I asked if he had a condom - I'm 33 and he's 27 - he said he doesn't ever use them. I demanded he out his clothes back on and we go buy some because there ...

Would I be selling myself out if I dated a girl who bullied me in school?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1434 days ago

4 December 2020 (M) - A girl who used to bully me at school started messaging me out of the blue and has asked me out. She hasn’t apologised or even acknowledged what she did yet is being nice as pie to me now. I suppose it’s partly my fault because I’ve not brought...

We are having a baby but I'm feeling left out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1438 days ago

3 December 2020 (M) - Hi guys, I’ve been with my partner for 3 years and we are expecting a baby in March. My partner has 2 children (8 and 11 years) from her previous manage. The children keep on and on telling my partner how excited for their brother’s arrival, and how ...

I feel like I'm living with Mr. Perfect and its making the relationship hard to maintain

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1185 days ago

3 December 2020 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles. I’m after some advice regarding the way my boyfriend is with me. I don’t want to put words into anybody’s mouth so I will just state the facts and give some examples of some recent, and some ongoing situations. Firstly t...

How can I make amends from 16 years ago? I bullied him because I was attracted to him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1439 days ago

1 December 2020 (M) - When I was in high school, I was bisexual (I'm still am bisexual) but I was too scared to admit it. There was one classmate, a boy named Andrew, who I started being sexually attracted to. He could walk by and I would get erections. I eve...