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Archived questions from: 5 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Falling for someone else...she's married and I might as well be.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I've been living with my girlfriend for 3.5 years in a house we've bought together. I love her but i don't know if I am or if I have ever been in love with her. Our relationship is stagnant and it seems like we stopped trying to get to know each ...

I'm attractive woman and men want me, but I still don't want to move on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hello, I was in a relationship for 3 in half years and it was a on and off relationship. My ex just broke up with me 2 n a half months ago. the relationship was a really bad one and my ex was a self centered, cocky, manipulating, possessive ...

Is there any hope for our relationship and soon-to-be family?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I got engaged a week or two after meeting. Things went really fast, but we felt we were madly in love and everything was wonderful. When I met him I knew he had been in a previous 6 year abusive relationship in which both parties ...

I hate not talking to him and I don't want to lose him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - i have started to like one of my best friends (DM) but my best girl mate likes him as well. recently he started bitching about her to me, but to her face he acts all nice. today someone told her what he said and he blamed me. now he wont talk to ...

Did prank calls kill our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hey cupid, Ever since september there was this boy who i really liked at skool and he likes me... Well he used like me. Recently, some1 pranked called him and used my name in the prank call so he thinks it me but it wasn't and i know who it was ...

Because of the lack of communication and history of lies, I'm paranoid every single day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I want to give up on my husband. I love him so much and can't bear the thought of actually leaving him, but at this point, I'm not sure that I have better options. I met him 3 years ago at work and we hooked up almost right away. About half a year ...

Drama!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - MY Fiance And I Have Been Dating For Little Over a year and we have major issues with his ex( daughters mother) interfering. sitting outside my house, following me around to the beauty salon, calling me, taking me to court for harassment, suing me, ...

Can I have my boyfriend back after the space that he needs?

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5 December 2008 (F) - In relation for the question that I have posted this morning regarding my indian muslim boyfriend... since he wants to be alone and will just call me back if he fixes everything about himself.... is there any possibility that we can be together ...

I've STILL not heard from her.

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5 December 2008 (M) - Aiit! guys this is nick checkinn again. So, I am not callin my honey.. not even texting messages.. It's been exactly 10 days today. What I know about her is that she is a very chilled out person with no issues at all. As I already mentioned she ...

Suffering over his porn habit...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I know there are many posts here with variations on this theme, but I'm just desperately searching for some insight and haven't yet found a situation similar enough to mine to bring me any comfort. I'm in a 3+ year relationship with a guy that ...

Every time I think that I may be actually getting over him it's like he knows I am and tries to crawl right back into my life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Two years ago I had started my first job when I had met Dave. As soon as I had layed eyes on him I was infatuated. Within a couple of days knowing him I had made up my mind that I had grew feelings for him. A few weeks later I had found out that he ...

What do I do to prove to her that O will never lie to her or cheat on her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - Hello, I'm having a problem with my girlfriend and it's all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship, I've cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why I did all this to her, though I lied because I don't want to lose ...

Is it wrong of me to want to have fun before I settle down?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I think relationships at my age are more to do with fun rather than love and she got really upset. I do love her but I don't want a serious relationship just yet. I'm only 17. I've been going out with her for over a year ...

I feel unloved and under appreciated...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I feel as though im stuck in rut and I really need other peoples opinions. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now we live together also but recently I've been feeling as though I'm missing out on being single and having the option to ...

As time went on, we started having sex less and less, until she became totally desinterested. I don't see why!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - My Situation: My girlfriend is 18 and I'm 21. We've been going out now for about 1 year. When we first met, she told me that she only had sex with one other person who she said was an awful lover and that she never liked to have sex with him. A...

My partner's child stays with us at weekends which is very stressful for me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my partner for 2 and half years, we live together with my 12 year old daughter. He has a 6 year old son from previous relationship who stays with us at weekends. Lately each weekend is becoming stressful and my partner is trying to ...

Is he talking the truth when drunk? Any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - All mature people here please give me the right advice. I have a boyfriend. But our relation is strange. First i used to call him. He always asked to call me only between 4-5 on saturday. Most of the times he used to cut my calls.Out of frustration ...

My ex's boyfriend is a loser who calls her bad names - what can I do to get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5835 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I grew up with a girl and started dating her at 17 she was 15. I was going in the marines and broke it off. I still loved her but could not have a girl freind at the time. My body messed up in the marines and we started talking/dated agen. I was no...

After being hurt once and again, I keep on loving like no tomorrow - is it worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - Hi all, what a fabulous site, and what awsome answers.. this isn't really a please help me, with an issue, I am just after a release really and if you have any answers I would be greatful. I just want to really know WHY? Why do we keep on searchin...

Do I continue to wait?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I'm partially afraid to ask this question because I believe I know what you all are going to say. And, I apologize in advance if this gets long. Basically, I'm absolutely in love with my friend (J) who is already in a relationship (wi...

I'm with him for all the wrong reasons and I don't know what to do about it...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - hello! I need advice on what to do on a delicate and confusing matter. I am 24 years old with an 8 month old child with my bf who is 37. we've been arguing a lot recently over stupid little things and sometimes concerning how to raise our child....

I feel I never see her... am I best moving on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (M) - I don't know really how to explain the situation, it's really kinda complicated this might be a little long but I'm not sure really what to do, I'll try to explain it as best as I can. I met this girl last year around this time. At the time she ...

I need to take care of this problem, this guy keeps making sexual comments to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - there is this guy at school that is 13 and im 13 but when we are at tech school he keeps tellin me that he wants to have sex wid me and for me to give him a bj, i dont like him and its wierd cause he did the same thing to my cousin and almost got ...

Should I get out of this now or wait it out? And how do I get his parents to accept me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5837 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now and then just last week, the day of my boyfriend's 18th birthday, his dad "grounds" ME from his house. I haven't been to my boyfriend's house in exactly a week now and it's because I couldn't get a ...

How do I tell someone it's time to leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5836 days ago

5 December 2008 (F) - I need advise for a delicate situation. A friend, just a friend, who I have known for 25 years has come to stay at my place which was supposed to be a couple of weeks until her LDR guy arranged things for her to move to his city. He is taking a...