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Archived questions from: 15 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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What am I supposed to do?????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - I'm a 25 year old woman who is in love with a married man. We practically live a married life together as we both work away from home in the construction industry and we spend 40 weeks together of the year and he goes home to his wife 12 weeks out ...

I try to please everyone but myself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5825 days ago

15 December 2008 (M - dear ladies, For 7 months now I've been with my girlfriend, I'm very happy with her!!! We are close...... Just lately my attitude has changed towards her and I feel confused and lost as my love is still there for her... I spend three times a week ...

Is he only with me because he doesn't want to come out of the closet completely?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - Is my boyfriend gay? He recently told me he would like to try oral sex with a man, then asked me if I would like to watch. I agreed to it and he has been cruising personal ads nonstop for the right person. Then he told me yesterday he would like ...

Is something going on behind my back with her and the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M - Hi, I have been with my gf for 3 years now, were both young, early twenties. probably like most relationships we have our fair share of ups and downs, recently mostly downs and she has started to doubt our relationship. I know for a fact sh...

How do I deal with the aftermath of the WEEK FROM HELL

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - This week so far my mum tried to kill herself by taking an overdose and crashing into a tree, and is now in a mental institution. I had a massive fight with my dad A good friend had an accident and is now in a coma. I crashed my car (I'm n...

I hate his ex and she's coming back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - Hi. I'm feeling anxious, sad, insecure and jealous for no good reason. I'm 20 and my boyfriend is 23. He's been my first boyfriend and we've been together for 2 years and 3 months. In the beginning everything was perfect as we are very, very, very...

Does he have an anger problem or something else going on?

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15 December 2008 (F - ok so me and my boyfriend argue alot but lately we've been pretty good except for the other day we got into a little arguement which was so stupid and he over reacted about the situation and let my house. he didnt even try to work it out or let it ...

He's proposing because I told him to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - This question is maybe strange, but please try to understand me, because it is something that realllllly bothers me! Me (27) and my boyfriend (26) are dating for over 4 years now. I knew he would be the one from the beginning, but it took him unti...

Why did my b/f buy her a sexy short dress?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - My boyfriend and I have decided that we were both not ready to buy each other nice Christmas gifts since we are both out of work and are in school. Him and his friends participate in a secret Santa every year and this year the cap was $50... at ...

We don't have normal sex anymore, just anal occasionally. My self-esteem is shattered!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (? - I have been with my boyfriend for around five months, we began to have sex after dating for around 3 months, we were both virgins. At the beginning, we both seemed to really enjoy sex, and I felt very satisfied and happy and he seemed to as well. O...

I don't trust this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5820 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - i have been with my guy for 6 months, hes great and lovely and we were best friends b4 for like 3 years. but recently i have gettin real jelous of his friend at college, she is in his class and hes always goin on about oh ***** shes so funny bo...

Both married we had affair, now he's single but I'm not!

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15 December 2008 (F - We're both married and fell in love with each other. He told me he'd never leave his wife and to work on my relationship with my husband which I did. The problem is he has now left his wife and is single. He say's he loves me and wants to be with...

My girlfriend is abusing me and the police don't help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M - About 16 months ago, I buy a House with my GirlFriend. She have one Girl (18) and a boy (15). The house have 3 Bedroom and 2 rooms. 3 months after moving in to the house, I ask permission (yes. permission) to go to my friends house to visit (...

Boyfriend broke up with me because his friend lied!

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15 December 2008 (F - I've been living with my boyfriend now for the past 4 or so months, everything was going fine, apart from the odd argument, which, every couple has. recently one of his friends tuned around to my boyfriend and told him that we'd fooled around with ...

Wants to say THANK YOU

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15 December 2008 (F - Can one ever say THANK YOU enough? WOW what an awesome site! Having vented my frustrations for the first time in writing and spent some time browsing through other people's similar experiences I feel SO much better. My inherent natural instinct ...

Violent Girlfriend then gets her family to threaten me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (M - My girlfriend is a really heavy drinker and is often violent towards me, her friends and even total strangers when she is drunk, she has promised to do something about her drinking many times but never does, its clear she never will. A few wee...

I just broke up with my boyfriend and its hurting like hell.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5826 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - I just broke up with my boyfriend and its hurting like hell. I was the one who suggested we break up, I really didn't think he would agree. He says we won't get back together coz I'm self centered and wants things to go my way-which is true. I...

Was it cold hearted of me to tell him no? We're just too young for marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (? - My boyfriend of 3 years proposed to me. I say no because I dont think im mature enough for marriage and we're both 19. Dont get me wrong I do love him but and 19 seems insanely young for that kind of commitment. I think might destroy him cause now ...

Now I don't know what to think as he says he wants a break...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

15 December 2008 (F - Me and my bf have been together for 4 years.... he was happy with me and we planned on growing old together. We always talked about our wedding and how we would live our lives... this was within a few weeks ago... but a week ago... he decided we ...

What is she thinking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

15 December 2008 (M - my girlfriend broke up with me 6 weeks ago. we have spent alot of time apart now considering that we used 2 live together and spend every second of every day together. we met up again (which isnt the first time since we've broken up) and today went ...

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