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36-40,
anonymous
writes:All mature people here please give me the right advice. I have a boyfriend. But our relation is strange. First i used to call him. He always asked to call me only between 4-5 on saturday. Most of the times he used to cut my calls.Out of frustration i stopped calling him. I was physically involved with him but i never did sexual intercourse with him and he always wanted that. Then after one month he started sending me sms. Used to call me anytime after got heavily drunk. When he talks to me without being drunk he is rough and says he don't love me but when he talks to me after got drunken he is very polite says that he loves me and ask me to meet him for sexual intercourse. When i deny he says that you are an orthodox girl,religious, you don't have any guts, and you are old at heart at this young age, you are a cold lady.I could have made love to him, but during my relationship i have always been confused that what does he actually mean . Is he talking truth without drinking or with drinking.Any idea guys? I have never tried drinking. Once he also offered me vodka at his house but i refused.He says that he enjoys drinking, nonveg and girls. One thing he never tried to rape me.Help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): Vikkicutie said that people say true fellings when r drunk.That's what i am asking that he says HE LOVES ME WHEN HE IS DRUNK when he is normal HE SAYS HE DON'T LOVE ME. It means he really loves me but why can't he say it without being drunk
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reader, vikkicutie  +, writes (5 December 2008):
 This guy is no good. When people have had a drink the truth comes out and tells the true feelings. when he is sober he "butters" you up saying that he loves you and so on... sorry to say this and sound rude but hes using you to get sex from you.He can be so nasty when drinking and then "ask me to meet him for sexual intercourse." he is using you for the one reason only, sex!"When I deny he says that you are an orthodox girl,religious, you don't have any guts, and you are old at heart at this young age, you are a cold lady." he cant get his own way because you have denied it.I think you should stay well clear and find someone who actually cares for you and will take things at your pace!!good luck hun!
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (5 December 2008):
he doesn't love you.thats the truth.
he wants you for sex
when he calls you don't be available
a guy who loves will not be rough when sober
you used to call him and when you stopped he missed those calls and texted,it was not because he loves you but he knows you love him wants you to always do
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