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Archived questions from: 23 December, 2008 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Midlife crisis or the end of a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Is it possible to love someone but be repulsed by them sexually and continually dream of a life without them? Could this just be a midlife crisis or does it signify the end of a relationship? ...

Engaged to an alcoholic- how do I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 years, engaged for 1 year. I've always known he had a dependancy for booze, but recently it's hit ludicrous levels - depression, won't take medication, won't go to work, out drinking for 12 hour sessions. ...

Should I be sad he didn't invite me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - its a tough situation but guys and gals i really need ur help!! im desperate :(...ive been with my bf for 4months now.but we know eacher other 4over a year now and we both liked each other long beofre we officially got together. i mustsay that we ...

Boyfriend is becoming more sarcastic and causing problems!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyf for nearly 16 months, were both 16. Were always talking about our future, had all our "firsts" together and my family adore him. Lately, in front of my mum, hes becoming more sarcastic to everything i say, arguing over sil...

My low self esteem won't let me and my new guy be happy together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have this new guy in my life that I love very much, But I have this problem... my self confidence is not where it needs to be. Therefore in the past I have been known to sabotage any potiential realtionships because of my fear of the person not ...

WHY doesn't he want to have sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5799 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Soooo I got this boyfriend who last year went to Arizona for three weeks. When he left we had no idea of how long he would be gone. Here's the kicker we DID NOT have sex before he left and we had super quick morning sex the morning after he got ...

Need help with what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5817 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hi, my name Dan and I've made a big mess of everything, on Sat 12:00pm 20th December I went and saw my sister for the last time before she went to adoption, anyway I was expecting to be with my gf coz she knew I was going to be upset but later that ...

Can an alcholic be someone who just goes out at weekends like my husband? What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 13 years and we have a 12 year old and a 6 year old. He has been drinking for years, he goes out at weekends saying he is just going for 1 pint and ends up coming home at all hours calling me names and recently ...

Break-up: Before or After Christmas?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Yes, this is incredibly bad timing. I have been in a relationship for 4 years and have known for a long time that something wasn't right. I wasn't ready to admit to myself that I no longer wanted to be in the relationship - until yesterday. My ...

I am sooooooo frustrated by him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - First, I live with my boyfriend. Last night we were cooking after I got out of the shower...so with a towel on my head. I got done finely chopping the ingredients and went and half dried my hair, so it was a mess. I walked out to get a cup of apple ...

So I don't know am I being selfish of should I go crazy at him????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hey, as you know its nearly christmas. Christmas for me is about spending time with the family and friends, AS you all know I've been engaged for a year now. Anyway, my fiaence is dropping off my presents on the 23rd December for me and I won't be ...

I've given her space around the office... what more can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - Hello. I've had a bit of a thing for this woman at work for a good few years now (unbeknownst to her). Recently she became divorced and so I made my move... rejected... she was already seeing someone else from the office! I don't know how long she ...

I want to leave him or should I give him some leeway as he is so young?

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23 December 2008 (F) - hi i am a 24year old mum to a 2year old boy and am 5months pregnant with my second son.i have been with the father of both boys for 3years and we break up get back together all the time but i have caught him out lying about his whereabouts, he comes ...

Will my sister get over what happened at her wedding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5779 days ago

23 December 2008 (?) - I went to my sister’s (who’s very controlling and stubborn) wedding and my girlfriend join me as well. Even though my sister and gf don’t get along that well. Everyone kept saying my gf is going up stage the bride and her dress left a little ...

Am I stupid for being with him still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - okay, here i am again with my problems. I jus got into it with my fiancee again, n this time i dont even kno where I stand anymore..I am tired of him thinkin that, what im trying to do for my son, he thinks im doin it for myself.. I ask...

How do I end it with her? She's bipolar.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years now. I still love her to death but she has become someone I am not in love with. For starters, she is bi-polar. She has drastic mood swings and constantly argues. I am a very laid back guy and can easily ...

How can I block her from calling me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - ok. my dads X-girlfriend is texting and phone calling me and giving me abuse. is there a way i can get her number completely blocked from phoning and texting me other than going to the police as this is to much hastle and i dont have time really...

Can someone help me with my family problems?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm 14 years old and I have a problem, although strictly speaking, it isn't about a relationship...like a boyfriend or anything. It's about my family. I have a brother that's two years older than me. Lets just say he's named Connor. Well my Mom ...

Help! I want to leave my husband.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5819 days ago

23 December 2008 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 5 years. For the past 2 years he has blamed me for everything that goes wrong in our relationship. He constantly moans so much so that it has eventually made me feel down and depressed. I work in the day and he ...

Should I go to the police or settle it myself?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5818 days ago

23 December 2008 (M) - hello aunty again;I have still been sleeping with my neighbour..when her husband came,she ignored me and used to tease me in front of him..guess to so her husband could not find anything out..2 days ago her husband left for the airport,as he goes ...