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writes:I feel as though im stuck in rut and I really need other peoples opinions. I have been with my partner for over 3 years now we live together also but recently I've been feeling as though I'm missing out on being single and having the option to saying yes when I get asked out. My relationship has never been great and things are getting worse by week. I feel unloved and under appreciated, I get blamed for every argument and have never felt so low. My partner won't even open to me so how can we be happy if he does not share his feelings with me? I feel as though I'm ready to go it alone but I'm scared I'll make a big mistake in leaving him, I'm so confused. Can anyone help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): Me too, try hard ,try do do the right thing but with some partners your best is never quite good enough, guess there must be someone I am good enough for and guess it must be the same for you, good luck and have a happy life some one there who will appreciate you for who you are
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reader, Scared +, writes (5 December 2008):
Scared is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much for the advice
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): If he can only ever see your faults and not his own - then leave..dont get stuck in a realtionship where everything is blamed on you. Ive just got out of a relationship where he hated me going out with my friend, he would pick arguments with me over anything and started to knock my confidence. Get out there with your friends (unless he is willing to see his own faults or get some help). If he makes you feel bad or likes to make you feel bad - get out!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): You both sound like you have communication issues. Get to see a counsellor now before the situation deteriorates and you have to part company.
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