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writes:I grew up with a girl and started dating her at 17 she was 15. I was going in the marines and broke it off. I still loved her but could not have a girl freind at the time. My body messed up in the marines and we started talking/dated agen. I was not stable. I broke it off because I did not want to drag her into hell with me. I got ingaged with someone els. and broke that off. Now I am 21 and she is 19 and i came back and she has a baby boy and boyfriend but only loves him as you would a brother. I prommised her I would not leave her agen if we got back together and i would not. ps her boy friend is a loser that cant hold down a job and never finished high school. calls her bad names and they live in his mom and dads basment. we talk we hang out. she said she needs to leave him but is afraid. i love her so much. what can i do to make her see the truth. please help
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (6 December 2008):
Well you may have thought you've done her favours by splitting up with her twice but as far as she's concerned, a man she really liked, dumped her, hurt her, got back together with her and hurt her again.
This new guy may not be nice but at least he doesn't abandon her at the first sign of trouble.
Now that may be completely unfair on you but I'm guessing that's how she feels.
Talk to her, put it all out there about how much she means to you tell her you want her back and you will never hurt her again.
Then walk away and leave her to make her decision. Once you are gone from her life then she might realise what she is missing.
Other than that you have to let her make her own mistakes.
Good Luck!! xx
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