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writes:I have been married to my husband for 5 years. For the past 2 years he has blamed me for everything that goes wrong in our relationship. He constantly moans so much so that it has eventually made me feel down and depressed. I work in the day and he works nights. I usualy have a good day in work and the minute I have to go home it feels like a black cloud appears above my head. I so want to leave my husband, he doesn't show me any affection, I have no self esteem, hardly any confidence. My friends and family say that I have changed. We sit in silence and we more or less lead separate lives. I live in misery, I have no where to go because I am on a low wage, which now he wants me to pay half of all the bills, even the mortgage. So I could'nt even afford to put money away to even get a rent deposit. I am so desperate to get away. My family have no room for me, so I am stuck and I just don't know what to do anymore, every avenue I persue, I find a brick wall straight ahead.!!
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reader, MissUnique +, writes (23 December 2008):
 Hi, first of all I'm sorry about the dilemma. Have you ever tried marriage counselling? He might not know just how desperate you are. If he refuses, you know he definitely doesn't want it to work so leaving would be best I think. Have you got any friends that could let you stay for a little while just until you get things straight and the free road replaces the brick wall? I can't think of anything right now to help your situation of what comes next...that's presuming he refuses the counselling, if you go for it.
I'll either post another answer or email you when I can think clearer ( I'm on adventurous training in the Belize jungle - I get home Christmas Eve - I'm in the army if you're wondering :) ) I hope things get easier for you and soon too, being unhappy is the suckiest thing ever :)
Good Luck!!!!!
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