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writes:Soooo I got this boyfriend who last year went to Arizona for three weeks. When he left we had no idea of how long he would be gone. Here's the kicker we DID NOT have sex before he left and we had super quick morning sex the morning after he got back. And this year he went to Florida for a week and a half right after thanksgiving we AGAIN did not have sex before he left. Here it has been nearly two weeks since he's been back and we have not had sex yet. Oh yeah I even had a birthday in there. He says that he loves me and acts like he does minus the sex. I have asked him what is going on and It's not me it's him. But COME ON doesn't he need it too?? What is the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): Thats not completely true. Why dont you see if it has anything to do with his health or mind set before jumping to conclusions... I am a 27 year old female and my boyfriend is almost 39. Unfortunately, we have only had sex 3 times in our 7 month relationship and if you consider sex being the man got off its been only 1 time... I knew from the time that I got with him that he had on many occasions since his divorice taken viagra to even get hard so it was nothing new to me. Although, I would love to be intimate with him all the time it is not possible. Maybe, your man has the same problem... If so, let him know...gently, that there are other ways he can pleasure you and that you understand...Never, jump to conclusions. If I would have I wouldve lost the best man Ive ever had regardless of the sex. Yes, sex is important but the emotional bond is what you really look for is it not?
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 Well you might try asking him again what the deal is if there is someone else or if he prefers the same sex partner or something else see if he will open up to you if not and he still doesnt have sex with you its not good there is going to be troubles on the home front because your going to want it and need it and if he isnt giving it up you will look else wheres for your needs ..........
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