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writes:First, I live with my boyfriend. Last night we were cooking after I got out of the shower...so with a towel on my head. I got done finely chopping the ingredients and went and half dried my hair, so it was a mess. I walked out to get a cup of apple juice and he looked at me funny..I asked "What?" and very cheeky he said "I just forgot how beautiful you were..." IT MAKES ME SO MAD WHEN HE DOES THIS! It really hurts my feelings. He isn't a very vocal person so he never tells me I am beautiful or look pretty but I walk out with messed up hair and he makes a cheeky remark....IT FRUSTRATES ME! So, upset, I didn't say a word and just cleaned the house and was watching TV.. he walks up from behind me and grabs my chest like I am some kind of cave woman... which pissed me off even more and I swatted his hands away. He started pouting and went into the bedroom to watch football. We ALWAYS go to bed at 10, so I went into bed and lay down with football blaring... we didn't say anything and he just kept watching football.... 20 minutes later I got up and just went to sleep on the couch... I am so frustrated!!!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): Give the guy a break...even if he did say it as a cheeky joke...whats the big deal?! Surely having a laugh is part of a healthy relationship. He clearly thinks you are hot seeing as he tried coming on to you later. I think you need to get over this as it sounds really pointless and i think your being a bit of a madam by getting so frustrated over it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow, I totally explained this wrong, or maybe it is because you don't know him. He doesn't love me...and if he does he hasn't told me. He didn't think I looked beautiful I KNOW 100%, he looked absolutely disgusted with me..and then when I called him out on it he said something cheeky and kind of giggled..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): I agree, I am having a problem seeing the exact problem. I can think of so many women who would love to have a man tell them that they are beautiful just out of the shower - and many men DO think that their girlfriends or wives are stunning at that time - au naturale. Love that he loves you just the way you are. Maybe he became frustrated with you for rejecting his intended-compliment and did not know what to do afterwards. I know that whenever I give a compliment to my significant other and it is shot down, I feel as though I said something wrong, which isnt the case. Try to open your heart to him and allow him to pay you the compliments you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo he NEVER tells me I am beautiful. At this time he does is when he first looks at me disgusted and I ask what? the he very cheeky says "I forgot how beautiful you are"...it was NOT being nice, I assure you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): I'm sorry I'm failing to see the problem here. He said you were beautiful right? And he's said it before? Most guys find a woman most attractive and sexy when they are fresh faced and right out of a shower. When he has only refered to you as "cute" once in your relationship and never touches you not even on your birthday or not before he goes away for two weeks or when he gets back. Then you can worry
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