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writes:Hey, as you know its nearly christmas. Christmas for me is about spending time with the family and friends, AS you all know I've been engaged for a year now. Anyway, my fiaence is dropping off my presents on the 23rd December for me and I won't be able to see him on xmas eve coz I'm working till 7pm and he and his cousin and all of his cousin's mates are going out xmas eve which I'm kinda annoyed about, I haven't even been invited or had some kind of though "oh maybe I should go and see my fiancee today as it's xmas eve" you know???His cousin is basically saying that my fiance Gary has seen me now for 3 years running on xmas eve and I was like well that's because were in a relationship!!!!! I just feel like he's making him choose between me and his cousin, so my fiance was like ok I will see you xmas eve and his cousin new years eve... and I was like nooooo! you can't do that!So I don't know am I being selfish of should I go crazy at him????need help asap thank!
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reader, deejuliet  +, writes (23 December 2008):
 Are you going to see him on Christmas day? If so, then I really dont see a big deal about him going out with his cousin on Christmas Eve. You dont have to spend ALL your time together! Spend Christmas Eve with your folks or some good friends, then see him on Christmas day! As for New Years eve, he does need to spend that with you.
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reader, coco1981 +, writes (23 December 2008):
Well..don't "go crazy" on him, but do explain how you feel. You do have a valid argument...you are his bride to be, and you are supposed to spend every holiday with each other (there are exceptions of course). I would tell him you want to be with him for all holidays and that you are excited to marry him for that very reason. I would just see if you could join in on their festivities with his cousins..
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