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writes:Hi..I wrote a question a little bit ago, here's the link for a little background info:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/are-we-even-still-dating-he-said-he.htmlIt's been two weeks now and things are still weird between the two of us. Basically, he randomly stopped texting me everyday and eventually I got it out of him that he wants to take a step back from the relationship and let things go with the flow, but that he still wants to talk/see me. He's been texting me sparingly and with the way things were going, I assumed he wasn't planning to wish me a happy new year but he did and I've heard from him since then even though it's still very limited. Today, he actually asked how I was doing in regards to some issues I've been having lately. Totally surprised me because I figured he didn't even care anymore, maybe he doesn't but at least he asked. I'm currently at my parent's house on break from school but in a few weeks, I'll be going back to my own apartment at school. We're long distance and my school's a lot closer to him than my parents' house, which makes it a lot easier to come visit plus he can actually stay with me for a few days. Earlier today, he asked when I was going back. I'm assuming he asked because he wants to see me. I don't know if that's a good or bad thing, I'm just glad he asked because he never asks that unless he's planning to come see me and I think seeing each other would be good for us at the moment. I haven't heard anything from him since he asked when I was going back and I responded with when, so I could be wrong. Any opinions on my situation? Should I try to see him or just let it go and move on?
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reader, chocoholicforever +, writes (3 January 2011):
can you just ask him the exact same questions you just posted on here and get answer straight from the horses' mouth?
it's really hard to sustain a relationship based on mind-reading.
or to even know if there's a relationship or not!!
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