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*ennsol
writes: Im still in love with my ex boyfriend, but he already has another girlfriend and it kills me inside to no that.. I tell him i still love him nd he tells me he does too but for me to wait till they break up, but its hard for me to wait and knowing that hes with this other chik. we went out for a year and 4 months, nd i no im still young but we were together for such a long time we were ready for sex. We had sex nd then a few weeks later we broke up, there were jus some problems going on between us, i really do miss him nd he says he misses me too nd that its hard for him bein wit another girl while he still has feeling for me.. But i just dont get why he wont jus break up wit her so we can be together.. all my friends no im still in love wit him. i cry for him nd id do anything for him hes my world nd i cant live wit out him anymore. Can someone please tell me wat i should do to get him bak to me.? PLEASE I CANT TAKE THIS PAIN ANYMORE!!! :'0
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reader, jennsol +, writes (4 January 2011):
jennsol is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you guys for answerind this... I am really happy right now i forgot about him and i have moved and im happily going out with someone else thaks!! :D :D
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reader, LovelessAct1 +, writes (2 January 2011):
I'm going to give you some hard advice, but its only because I've been there and don't want to see you make the same mistake: don't wait for him.I've been in the position where an ex-girlfriend and I still wanted to be together and she assured me she did not have feelings for the guy she started dating. I asked her why she was still with him if he didn't make her happy and she told me she didn't know and that she would end it soon because of how much she missed me. For weeks (painful weeks, I might add) I waited for her to end it with him and come back to me, but she never did. Finally when I asked her about it, she said she was having a change of heart.I was so certain she we were going to be together again. I could clearly see she still had feelings for me, yet she changed her mind anyways. It hurt way too much; way more than I deserved.So, seriously, don't wait for him. This doesn't mean you have to date other people, but definitely don't expect him to drop everything for you in case he doesn't. Since it already seems that he's hesitant, I wouldn't be surprised if he doesn't have the courage to break up with the girl he's with to be back with you.If he actually does it, then yes, you should talk with him about where your relationship can go, but DON'T wait for it to happen; you may end up waiting much much much longer than you anticipate and it will only hurt more every day.Move on and live your life. Enjoy your friends, school, family, hobbies, sports, whatever. Take some time for yourself and forget about him. If he comes to you, great. But don't bank on it. Be willing to accept that he may not do what he has promised.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (2 January 2011):
 Uhm honey if he even felt half as strongly towards you as you do towards him he wouldnt want to be with you. Basically what he is saying is if things dont work out with this girl then ill get with you. If he loves you and wants to be with youd hed break up with her now. Not wait. And he can tell you whatever bs reason he wants, but there is no denying if he liked you more then his new gf she b his x and ud be with him. But you arent. Move on. The only time he will get with you is when things between his new girl and him dont work out. Then he will just be using you.
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