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Archived questions from: 26 October, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

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The ex-factor: Help and advice

Please suggest a solution to this! He knows I care about him, he must care about me too, if he keeps in touch, right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Here I go again. My x bf has been texting me he says we will be "forever friends" but he is living with a woman he met and started seeing when my mother was dying and I couldnt/wouldnt devote 100% of my time to him. He wants to meet up with me ...

Why is my ex stiff and formal? He's the one who dumped me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - My ex fiance broke my heart 9 months ago. We were together for 7 years, best friends, and VERY much in love, but one day he said he had an epiphany and couldn't be with me anymore (his family is very religious). He's 27 and I'm 29. We planned to ...

She's still friends with her ex. Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable given the circumstances?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - I would like to get some perspective/other people's views on the following situation: My girlfriend has an ex who she is still friends with. They broke up four years ago and didn't see each other for a while, but for the last two years she had se...

How do I stop getting my hopes up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - hi please help as previousley posted - my girlfriend endedd our relationship in april - i suspected that she was seeing someone else and guess what within a week she said she was ina relationship. Like a fool I chased and chased her - but she ju...

Why is my ex not adding me back on MSN?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - why is my ex not adding me back on msn because about a week ago we kind of had an argument but then she deletes me from msn. then about 4 days later i asked her why she deleted me and she says that i was getting on her nerves. but i apologised and ...

Escort girlfriend and sleepless nights, Part 2.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Hello, I posted a question for advice some time ago which you can read here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/escort-girlfriend-true-love-and-sleepless-nights-help.html As pathetic as it may seem I am not yet free of the situation. I was won...

What is my ex husband's agenda?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i am in a bit of a dilema. I thought everything was going how it was supposed to and then my ex contacts me. we have been in the middle of a divorce for 8 mths. he asks how i am doin and hows work. i reply short but sweet good and more or less ...

Got drunk, kissed a guy, and hit my ex. How do I apologize?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Dear all, I made a stupid mistake over the weekend that I'm being punished for now. I've been split up from my boyfriend since July and all in all it was a amicable split and we've tried to stay friends although there's been some problems. On ...

Should I say goodbye or leave him to forget me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - im gonna cut off contact with my ex who is my best friend as well its killing me to do this, but i dont know what else to do to get over him. I haven't spoken to him for 2 days which is a big improvement because we talk everyday since we met. Should ...

I want to forget them and move on! HELP!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Hi, Sorry this is sooo long. Please can I have some advice on the best way to get over someone, I do not want them back, well I do in a way, but I know I couldn’t go back, they have pulled enough shit, but I want to forget them and move on ...

He said she was only a fling yet I found emails saying he wanted to marry her, how do I know that I'm not just another fling?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - ok.....this is a really long one but Im DESPERATE for help. 4 yrs ago i got in touch with this awesome guy n we really hit it off. he is 3 yrs elder to me.... and we've been together for over 3 and a half yrs now....and its always been in a ...

I have really fallen for him but I'm scared it might be too late!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He ...

He hit rock bottom after we split up and we are meeting again for the first time this Sunday. How do I play it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - hi i split with my ex 10 months ago, after a passionate intense 6 months relationship, we had moved in together, i realised he had a serious alcohol problem, i know a lot about that issue, he had stolen money off me before, we were sharing money but ...

How can I let him know I am over him and just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - ok i posted a lot of things on here actually.. im having trouble getting over what happened i explained it in detail in one of my other writings.. long story short i got left for some ghetto girl on homecoming nite for a guy i committed to and...

I still love my ex but we have different backgrounds. Can it work?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - Well it's simple, I'm still in love with my ex and she says she still has feelings for me. I'm just not sure if I should take her back. When I was with her I tried to be the best boyfriend I could. I always did what she wanted me to, I bought her ...

Can I beat him at his own game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Hey all, Me and my ex split up a few months ago, his decision not mine. He's been leading me on ever since, giving false hope that we may get back together. He wants to remain friends but like I said sometimes he gives false hope of us getting...