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Archived questions from: 5 October, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from October, 2009)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Will this move cause more problems for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm struggling whether I should move in with my boyfriend or not. We've been together for two years, all of which has been far from rosy. We live two hours apart and since day 1 his much younger ex girlfriend has caused us many pro...

Am so used to being used and mistreated, it's what I look for now in a relationship! How do I end the cycle?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

5 October 2009 (M) - Is there something wrong with me? Has this really changed me? I was in a bad relationship where I was lied and cheated on. I forgave her and it just never got better. Things ended kind of with occasional relapses in hanging out. I absolutely was ...

Lies caused my mum to dissaprove, I want my ex back how do I approach her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Iv been with a boy before and hes 16 years old, but my uncle says to my mam he was 18 when he wasnt but my uncle has never bothered with me ever in my life until now, but why now? the boy i was with was the best boy i ever dreamed of but i broke up ...

She wont let him see his baby if he stays with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - my boyfriend's ex recently gave birth to his baby and now she wants to get back with him. hes told her hes staying with me, but shes saying that as long as were together he cant see his baby!. ive stressed my opinion on how this unfair for both my ...

I was doing so well getting over him but all my hard work has been undone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - 2 years ago i fell in love, it was amazing, i had never met anyone like him,. everyone said we made the perfect couple, and we were so happy. we went out for a year, but towards the last month he said that it was going to quick, he was too young ...

I have a crush on him but I think he is still in love with his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - dear cupid, i have a crush on this guy and have been crushing on him since last year.. but i think he's still in love with his ex-girlfriend.. but he's always laughing with me and winking at me should i go for it? what should i do?...

Are either of us looking for more than friendship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - broke up with my boyfriend about 6 months ago. We lived together and it ended badly. It hurt a lot for both of us and he went away to France with work so we never spoke to each other. On Friday I had to e-mail him to say his post was still coming, ...

Need advice and thoughts on situation with ex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5550 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm so confused and I need an honest opinion....I was with my ex for 3 and a half years...before that we were best friends for 6 years so in total, we've been close for 9 almost 10 years...recently (about a month ago) he dumped m...

Is it too weird to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

5 October 2009 (F) - I dated my ex boyfriend for about 6 months. We have been broken up for about the same amount of time now ( he broke up with me and started dating his ex) i was sad because we got along great and things were getting a bit serious between us, so it ...

Why is he suddenly acting so cruel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

5 October 2009 (?) - Just want to know why guys do this!! After a long term relationship in which we were completely in love and going to get married, he calls off the relationship out of the blue. Cheating and abuse of any kind were not involved. He cries and su...