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I have really fallen for him but I'm scared it might be too late!

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Question - (26 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 October 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so this might sound complicated. I known this guy for as long as I could remember. On my last year of high school I had several relationship problems with a certain ex. So my friend who I known for ages was there with me all the time. He listened to all my problems and hung out with me all the time at school. Little did I know he liked me for awhile since freshmen year. I think 4 years. So like I was unaware of this. At one point we were in a relationship for a day..I know how ridiculous as it sounds, but I didn't feel okay about it. I didn't want to hurt him. On the first day we went out I kissed him. Then I avoided him for awhile. Then after that a few months later I found out he found another girl, but she ended being this "rebound" girl so he could forget me, but he couldn't. After that on grad night we held hands. For those moments, it felt right, but somehow I felt weird. He told me he'd wait for me for a year for my answer.

I ended up ignoring him for 4 months..(weird that the number 4 is used often) Anyway for those 4 months I wanted to clear my mind and calm down, but one day I tried calling him. I felt fine talking to him but somehow he sounded different. When I saw him on Friday... I couldn't stop looking at him, he changed in a good way. He was handsome, and I broke his heart. Now, I think he broke mine too. Just now I found out he found himself a girlfriend, and I don't know what to do. My feelings were confused, but now it's clear I really have fallen for him. I believe it's too late. I'm too slow! Now that I found out, I'm afraid Should I tell him how I feel? Or should I just leave it and move on?

He said he'd wait for me for a year, but maybe his answer is no.

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A female reader, happyhippo85 United States +, writes (26 October 2009):

happyhippo85 agony aunt1) you said he has a girlfriend now? ok.. what then do you hope to achieve when you speak to him.

2) You mentioned he is handsome now. Will you fall for him if he still looks the same?

Ask yourself these questions first. again and again.. what is it telling you?

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