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Archived questions from: 12 October, 2009 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

(More questions from October, 2009)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Did I come across as jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I mentioned to my ex about reconciling..he said he can't just jump back into things which is fine..and also that we'll talk on the phone and then meet...its been almost 2 months of talking which is fine but i'm getting nervous about what if he loses ...

I'm beginning to think I am pregnant by a very jealous and controlling man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I tried to make this short but...couldn't. I kind of already know the answer to this but..thought I'd ask for advice. I have been dating someone for several months. We have had a argument every month except one about my ex husband. I have been ...

How can I get my mum to give my new boyfriend a chance? She still prefers my ex who cheated on me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - A few months ago I broke up with my boyfriend. He was my age. A few weeks after that, I started dating a guy who I had been in love with since I was 12 (I'm 14). He is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and what makes it even more ...

We split up a year and a half ago and he is still messing me around! I need to give him an ultimatum but I don't want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend split up with me 1 1/2 years ago. He never gave me a specific reason. From then on, because i wanted to get back with him - i tried everything. Then we'd argue and he'd say - 'I was going to say we should get back together, but now ...

When the going gets tough he always bails on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - I know this sounds so stupid and i know ive figured it out in my head, well nearly but im a 40yr old woman who should no what to do. i met a married man who wasnt happy he left his wife of 28ys and we built up a relationship. we have been together ...

Even though I am happy in my new relationship I am still uncomfortable about my ex bringing another woman to the wedding we are both attending!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - After an on of relationship of 4 years my boyfriend and I broke up. Because he could not decide weather he wants me or not I decided to break contact as much as possible (we share lots of friends). He told evebody how I could not move on and that it ...

The father of my 4 kids could be going to prison for a rape he didnt commit, and it is all my fault!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi i was with my partner for almost 8 years we have 3 children when he just comes in from work one day and leaves, I thought he'd be back cause he always did. But a week went by and he wasnt coming back, I asked him why and he said he was fed up ...

How can I stop myself loving this man? He is a manipulative monster and a perv, I just want to stop loving him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5522 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My heart is broken, I have been with this "wonderful" man for three years now, a hairdresser, he has pampered me and took me away on breaks, i have been taken to all his family birthday meals etc. Last weekend, my birthday weekend, we were at his ...

My ex only wanted to give me oral sex and now it is affecting my new relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - I had been seeing my girlfriend for about 9 months and although full sexual intercourse is not so often she prefers to perform oral sex on me. The first time she did it I thought wow very experienced and a bit much as we had not really been ...

Should I hold onto the hope that he might come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - i am still very confused in what to do my boyfriend and i broke up just before last christmas after 11 wonderful years. he met someone else who has a child of 8 years old and moved straight in with her. he kept texting me right up to aug of this ...

I've realised I married my husband for the wrong reasons and the feelings for my ex are still there, I just don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - this is extremely long, sorry... ive been keeping this all inside for a very long time and it felt really good to finally get it out... I need help. I have really gotten myself into a pickle with this one. I have know my best friend for a...

My boyfriend told me he doesn't enjoy sex with me and thinks of his ex instead!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - Hi last night my boyfriend and were cuddling in bed and we got talking about our sex life, which i believed has been good so far, ( we have been dating for a yr now) he said he doesnt enjoy sex, even though its been yrs since he broke up with hi...

Did I say all the right things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5525 days ago

Troubled girlfriend looking for a way to make my boyfriend realize what he's got before it's gone...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going through a divorce, but still talks to his ex ALL the time. They have a daughter together, so I understand them having to talk some, but not about how eachother's day went, etc. He is constantly texting when he is with me, but ...

I like my ex's friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5523 days ago

12 October 2009 (M) - Ok so me and my ex broke up bout 5 months ago.ended pretty bad, we were together bout 3 months.not long at all right, but i happen to like one of her friends that's in my class.she's not her best friends but one of her good friends . I kinda think ...