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writes:im gonna cut off contact with my ex who is my best friend as well its killing me to do this, but i dont know what else to do to get over him. I haven't spoken to him for 2 days which is a big improvement because we talk everyday since we met. Should i give him a goodbye call, letter, email, text etc i dunno what more appropriate for the situation, something to let him know i wont be talking to him, or should i just not bother him and just fade out of his life. He's always said if i need space i should let him know, coz it will seem rude and odd if we just stop talking but if i do say goodbye what is the best method. Also can i have advice on cutting off contact its going to be extremely hard in school, because im in his class for many lesson and on wednesdays were in the same lesson all day. Thank you for all the advice x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 October 2009):
I think you're making the right decision here. When I ended contact with my ex, I used a letter to explain to her that we both needed to move on. It's not the cowards way out at all, as some will say. It's actually the best now that you're not together. It will keep the emotions to a minumum, and give you time to think about what you want to say. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): my situation was different but inherently the same.heres what i tried and it worked for me. Write a letter or text. It is the 'cowards' way out to some...but in my case it was the only option. I wrote...this will be my last text...stated calmly the migitating factors...closed with...i wish you happiness...make a clean break. And dont fall into..lets meet and talk for closure, it doesnt close. I reopens. Goodluck sweetheart
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