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writes:Hey all,Me and my ex split up a few months ago, his decision not mine.He's been leading me on ever since, giving false hope that we may get back together. He wants to remain friends but like I said sometimes he gives false hope of us getting back together when thats not what he wants!!Now i'm getting pretty sick and tired of being so upset over him! I've had enough i've wasted too many tears on him, I need to toughen up and show him what he's missing!!One problem though - How should I show him what he's missing without it looking obvious that i'm trying to get him back?I know it may seem extreme but he broke my heart I really love him but i'm tired of him doing this to me so i'm going to play him at his own game.Thanks for reading.x
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reader, Red Green 0289  +, writes (26 October 2009):
Look, cut all ties, and go on about your life... the best revinge is living well- send his a post card in a year and tell him that all is great... or put him on your christmas card list...
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reader, emilymarie26 +, writes (26 October 2009):
Tell him that you can't be a part of his life anymore, as friends or anything else. It's only hurting you by keeping him around to play these games with you. Also, he's getting exactly what he wants by you staying around after he broke up with you and treated you like that. Go live your own life without him and you will be so much happier! Like oldersister said, being happier without someone is the best revenge :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): The best way to get to him is to move on with your life and show him that he's not important to you anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2009): I know it sucks and hurts your ego is shot but you have to love yourself again... Find a new boyfriend, date and go out have fun... Stop contacting him. Let him go agree with breakup... Theres other men out there, youll be ok. If you can find new hobbies and frineds and other things to do life will get better.. Let frineds set you up. Change your style, get a hair cut, new perfume.etc. If you do see him, look great, keep it light, tell him you are busy and dating.text him once a month to see if you get any response if not well you have your answer. Dont give him too much attension. There are other better men out there. He is not the only one for you.. You may live with a few more men and go out with more men in your lifetime and you could hurt some and they could hurt you,But take the chance and just get out there. Just look as good as you can . Someone out there will think your hot and fall in love with you. He may still like you and care for you, some men are hard to land but know when to cut your lose.
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