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30-35,
*issEmilina
writes:Dear Cupid,My ex has recently started to text me again, he was been makin small conversation at first, then he asked was i still with my new boyfriend, Even though i said yes, he asked me to come over to his cause he had a free house only to 'hang out'. I didn't text back but he text me later askin did i want to meet up sometime. Again i didnt text back. I know he wants sex off me cause he was leaving x's on the texts, but the problem is i know he has a girlfriend, but i don't think he knows that i know he does. Should i try to contact her and tell her what he is doing?
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reader, Ted-ster  +, writes (20 July 2009):
Mind your own business, and don't get involved with this potential drama. Stay out of it. And tell him not to text you again, that you are positively not interested in seeing him or hearing from him. Wish him luck, and don't respond to any more messages, unless he harrasss you. Your previous responses to him are encouraging him to pursue you, so stop it. By getting involved, you will be further intertwining yourself with this guy. Move on to your own life, and happiness, and focus on developing a positive relationship with your new BF, not slinging mud around with an old boyfirend and his poor GF.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 i don't think you should text his ex at all she'll get the wrong idea and it could come crashing down onto you and end up making you the bad guy.
i mean who will she believe her current boyfriend? or his Ex?
she'll just see you as being jealous and stuff. best way to do it just leave it don't text him or anything he'll eventually get bored contact someone else or she'll find out for herself what he's doing.
just don't get yourself involved as it could get messy and make you seem the bad guy when it's not you.
Hope this helps :)
x ilovebowsandcherries x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): i think u should tell his girfriend and if there's any conflict at all u can either resolved it yourself or u know find help! well hope it is successful!
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