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36-40,
*ceventura
writes:My gf and I had dated for almost four years. We lived together for one, we didn't end on a bad note, never any huge problems, I am a pretty good guy. We were very good friends before we started dating and became lovers. We broke up over a month ago, she said she needed her space and time for herself though she is seeing a man seven years older, and our anniversary is coming up in August. Would it be alright if I were to send her flowers to let her know I am still thinking about her and show how much and how special she is to me?ps we havent talked for two weeks though she still says that she wants me and loves me as friend
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 July 2009):
 No. Don't send flowers. For two reasons. She is involved with someone else AND it is not your anniversary, if you aren't together. Easy as that. Once you break up with someone the anniversaries stop.. OK ?
NOW if it was her birthday, I would say that is sweet.
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reader, Beingblack  +, writes (20 July 2009):
 No flowers please.
Cast your mind back. If an ex sent her flowers when you were together, what would you have thought?
Move on, get over her. After a month, she is seeing someone else. Know what that means? She is clearly over you.
Start looking forward to your life, stop looking back at it.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (20 July 2009):
 I honestly think you should move on it seems like shes really unsure of things and is keeping you as a back up. She said she loves you as a friend so shes letting you kno all she wants with you is a friendship it sounds like you where good to her but for some people thats not enough dont toture your self save your efforts for another that will appreciate it dont send the flowers and stop calling her you will never get her back that way get your emotions in check and at best she is a freinds with benefits
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2009): I'm not sure if it is a right or wrong thing, considering I am a nice guy myself I would prolly ask a question like this. But you and your ex...seem to be on very mature terms and that is kinda amazing and sweet. I think you should send her the flowers, maybe write something about how you do still think of her. I think its sweet, so you should.
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