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Archived questions from: December, 2011 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

I am bi-sexual, but worried my family won't accept me for who I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - Okay my question is what should I do about this? I am bisexual and I have told my good/ close friends and they accept me for who i am. I want to come out to my parents but my dad sometimes makes gay jokes he doesn't do it anymore so that's good. ...

How do girls really feel about shy boys?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Girls tell me that they love me but they say that's as a friend. What is their fucking problem? 2nd Question: what do girls feel for shy boys? ...

What are his intentions towards me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - so i went for a holiday back home, and i went to my ex school to visit my ex teachers. my sister, who goes to the same school, was free so she came along with me. as we where going round and knocking on staffroom doors, my sister met this hot ...

To text or not to text? And if I do text her, what should I say to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4708 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - Hello! I am a 16 year old guy and I've been working at a pizza place (Donatos) since I was 14. I got a girl's number when I was working the other day, she wrote it on the back of a receipt that I gave her to sign (and she tipped me xD). She was real...

Who is better for me? who will be better long term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

31 December 2011 (F) - so i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years, it has been a rocky relationship from the start, so much cheating, he's cheated on me and i have cheated on him, but he changed and became a better person these last 7 months, but then about a ...

My cousin kissed me. Now what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

31 December 2011 (M) - I was in my cousins garage and it was just the two of us she asked me if i wanted to dance or pingpong and i chose dance then she decided to kiss me on the neck what should i do...

I'm 19 years old, and my parents won't let me do anything!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3289 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hello. Thanks for having a great community like this. I hope you can help me with my problem. I'm 19, I go to college and still live at home with my parents. My parents are really strict. They treat me like I'm 5 when I'm clearly an adult. They w...

Was it wrong for him to change my password?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Heyy, well to start with my boyfriend knows my facebook password and i know his, today an old friend of mine was talking to me and he was saying some pretty inaproprate things to me, my boyfriend saw them and got mad i begged him not to say anyt...

I don't want anyone liking me in a romantic way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - Hi, thanks for viewing this question:D. Anyways, on the problem. I think this year is an extremely strange year, maybe its because of the fact that everyone in my level will be graduating from our school. But this year, I received 17 confessi...

Mixed signals from him. Do I ignore them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4709 days ago

30 December 2011 (F) - i like this guy. i have known him since 7th grade and i liked him then, but i never had the guts to tell him. then he went out with my best friend. then i moved in 8th grade. then i saw him again at the church my sister goes to in 10th grade. ...

Why has my mate suddenly changed?

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30 December 2011 (M) - me and my mate 'darren' are like brothers. we have known each other for like 12 years. neither of us are virgins any more, but we've both always thought that sex was for someone you truely care for. now he's started havin sex with girls he doesn't ...

He cheated with me, now I am paranoid about people finding out

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Well i met this guy the other night and the first time we met we connected like he was the one to say this too me and that we couldn't stop looking at each other... The next night him and his girlfriend who is one of my good mates came around to m...

How do I remember that drugs/sex/alcohol should not be desensitized?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hi, I just started high school this year. I've always been sorta religious, such as saving sex for marriage. I also don't want to do drugs or alchohol. But since I've been at my new school, I'm worried that I don't feel the same about that. There ...

Friends can cuddle... Right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Okay, I've been friends with this guy for a good few years now, I'll call him B. I've recently broken up with my previous boyfriend of 7 months, things just weren't working out. I hug all of my guy friends and all of them know a simple hug for a ...

My friend made a move on me. I pushed him away. How can I still be friends but still be clear that his move on me was not ok?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - My best friend made a move on me a while back and i sort of freaked out at the time and pushed him away. I regret my actions at the time but he did sort of scare me. We have been friends for years but since that incident he avoids me. I still want ...

Should I tell My Mother that my Uncle withheld money he owes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (M) - Last year i did not do so well saving for Christmas. Everybody got something from me but it was not much. I decided to make the effort to save for this year and my Uncle offer to help. I gave him £2 every week for the whole year but when i asked for ...

When I flirted with him he didn't flirt back, does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - - We kissed once. He was my first kiss. - Even when he was in another country, we chatted a lot. He always initiated them first. - When we were at a party, he'd follow me around (not creepily). - He was touchy around me and whenever we talked, ...

He didn't tell his ex he is TAKEN so she keeps texting him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months now and we have a great bond. I trust him fully and trully. He is very honest with me and tells me everything about him and his only ex. They have been together for 2 years and so. He thinks that ...

I'm not sure I am doing the smart thing with this older boy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - Hey. I am a freshman in highschool. This junior and I have been texting on and off for a few months now. He doesn't really talk to me in school. We just smile the casual hey what's up but not a real conversation. I really like him and I know he ...

My new boyfriend is really sweet and caring but I am in love with his best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 December 2011 (F) - I've just begun dating a new guy. I'm 17 (18 in 1.5 months) and he's 22. I haven't known him that long, we've only been together for 3 months. He's a really sweet and caring guy and he makes me really happy. The only problem is that I think he is in ...

Can somebody help to organize my life!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hi everybody? I need some tips to keep my life organized for example the truth is I stink,im too lazy to take showers,im too lazy to exercise,poor diet I eat nothing but junk food,im too lazy to look pretty,i have a mess in my room!i have goals that ...

I'm so confused by my friends' actions

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28 December 2011 (F) - I have this problem and i don't know what to do... There is this guy and he usto be my friend when we were little and then he started being a jerk a couple years ago and then he slowely made his way into our friends group. Before he started ...

I met this girl but she has a boyfriend. Can we still hang out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - Hey guys and girls. Happy holidays :D Hope you people had lots of fun. Alright here's the help I need. I meet this girl at a formal like around 1 week ago for like an Religious Catholic Organization. Alright I meet her, I don't wanna over board...

Should I follow my religion or just enjoy being young?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I go to a Roman Catholic school and In Religious Education we were discussing sex before marriage. everyone in my class was saying that they can't wait to have sex and are not waiting for marriage, but for some reason, I want to wait. I am not a ...

I'm Falling In Love With A Really Close Family Friend. What Should I Do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I think I'm in love with my mums friends son. They live over in Ireland and we go over once a year but this year was... different! He kept teasing me about how I've not properly snogged anyone yet and was really protective. He even bailed on a day ...

My grandfathers party is on the same day as my girlfriends! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

28 December 2011 (M) - I need a question answered. My girlfriend goes to church and I go with her most of the time. and they invited me to their Christmas party because of my GF. I promised my GF that I would go with her. But today I found out that my Grandfather's part...

I'm skinny and eat unhealthily. What should I do? And guys, do you naturally prefer more well-rounded girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - Hey, I saw a similar question earlier and it got me thinking. I'm gonna be really blunt, I'm veery skinny. I weight around 100 lbs, I'm 5'9" and I'm 14. I eat rather unhealthily, I get my twiggyness from my mother. Also, I have many MANY other frie...

Do you think I should text him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I and my crush were texting each other before, just having normal conversation. But one day i texted him and he said "who is this" and i was like "its cailyn i thought you saved my number" and he didn't text me back. We didn't talk in class th...

Feeling sick and depressed lately...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - I don't know but I always want to be alone, like all my friends ask me to hang out with them, but I always make all these excuses why I can't like I will lie, and say I am not allowed, or I am busy, and etc.. And every night I cry my self to slee...

I've fallen in love with my sister's life-long mate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4703 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - hi i am a hindu girl (17) and i am in a relationship with my sister's best and life long mate hes 20 and white we have fallen in love but the trouble is my sister (also 20) hates the idea of mixed race relationships. we have been going out for a ye...

I am afraid that I will never love or find someone else :(

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 December 2011 (F) - 2 years and 7 months ago I was with my first love and I still love him although he done a few mean things. one and a half years ago I started a new relationship (the first guy and I stayed good friends) I thought he was extremely cute but to be ho...

What can I say to get talking properly again and keep her interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

27 December 2011 (M) - so i added this girl on facebook about a month ago... started talking and flirting... she is kinda a friend of friend of a friend we are muttualy connected by friends :P and im not the most confident guy in the world especially with ladies (shy and ...

Why has he suddenly come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4542 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - So me and this guy used to talk. We went out for coffee once and it was okay. After a couple of days we stopped speaking all together. Well I stopped speaking to him because it was just me instigating the whole conversations and I gave up at that ...

Was it right for my boyfriend to hide the fact that my friend was texting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

27 December 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend were at my friends house. we were all hanging out and than all of a sudden when he got a text message he pulled me close and started making out with me. i pushed him away and laughed it off. my friends thought it was cute but i ...

How Dear Cupid has allowed me to be myself and express myself. How strangers saved me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4691 days ago

27 December 2011 (?) - Dear Cupid is one of the only places I can express myself; liberated from self-consciousness by the mask of anonymity, I can write from the heart. There was a time when writing was the love of my life; my understanding of the English language and ...

He teases me and can be sarcastic. But could he like me romantically?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4710 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - We've been working together (I know, work is not the best place to get a crush, but I can't help it!) for about a month now, and in that time we've created a pretty friendly relationship. We're very jokey and sarcastic with each other and we tease ...

Too extreme or too sweet?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

26 December 2011 (F) - Well me and my boyfriend were hanging out and i saw one of my BEST BEST friends i haven't seen in like 1year! so i ran up to him and hugged him. my boyfriend instantly got up and walked by me and kinda pulled me back. than he looked at me and said ...

How to be friends with an ex???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - My ex and I just broke up a month ago and I'm ready to take the next step to be friends..how do I do that?i want to get to know him more..we only got to know eachother or two-three weeks and things got too fast!..but we both don't want to be ...

I'd like to confront him about the false message he gave me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I hope you're enjoying the holidays! So, there was this guy that I used to like. Let's call him T. T is somewhat of a ladykiller, he has a ton of friends who are girls, and he's dated a lot of people. Recently, I was leaving ...

What is up with this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

25 December 2011 (M) - I was having a nice conversation with a girl I like. We had been talking for about three hours beforehand. She said she had to shower, and I didn't respond because I didn't find it necessary. It's been two hours since and I have seen her on Facebook ...

How many kisses x x x x is the right number of x x x x in an online message to someone I'm interested in?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - Hello just a quick question, how many x's do you think are suitable to put at the end of a text/ facebook message to the opposite sex? Without giving the wrong impression, or should i just put none at all. Sometimes my boyfriend gets jealous when i ...

Find a Motivation and succeed against the biggest health issues. My Story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - At the begining of the year i was in pieces, i cannot even describe how i felt this time last year and i am sure only people who have ever been through something similar to what i have been through can imagine how bad it felt. It was Decemebe...

Is it normal for puberty to be slow to start? How long before before changes will occur to make me look more like a man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - I don't think my penis looks right. It looks the same size and shape (like a shrimp and its embarasing) as it did when I was 9. It hasn't taken any teenage penis shape or size yet. What does this mean? Is it unusual?...

Afraid to start a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (F) - I'm 16 years old. My close friend he likes me for about 3 years now. For that 3 years i rejected him. Suddenly i think back and he is actually really sweet so i though i might give him a chance. Well, basically i had never been in any relationship ...

How do I forget about this girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - so how do i forget about this girl? shes four years younger than me but i cant help my fealings. she even said if i was younger shed of asked me out. and she wants to meet me (as friends) her words were 'dont suppose we could meet up somtime?' this ...

Should I try to break her up with her boyfriend so that we can be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

24 December 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, Please tell me what i should do. Me and this girl met last year and have been really close until September which was when she got a boyfriend. Anyway we could talk about anything and everything and openly flirted. We were well past the...

My family aren't supporting me during my pregnancy -- should I take up the offer from my b/f's family?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - i am 14 almost 15 and i'm 26 weeks pregnant with twins..i am super happy and so is my boyfriend and his family..my family on the other hand..i'm thinkin..not so much..i can see why they are upset/disappointed but right now all i need is support..i ...

Why snog me if he likes a different girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - Hello :) Right its quite complicated but here goes. :L I have a friend whos a boy called ant and we have been friends for a while now and get on really well. Hes in the same class as me so we are always together and recently i have started to like ...

My family calls me wicked and selfish even though I work all day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - Hi.. I'm 15, i've got no social life, no friends, my only friend is myself, i talk to myself for long hours and i don't get tired. No one seems to understand me, especially my parents. I cook, clean and organize the home, and all my dad does whe...

Should I just tell him to eat more pineapple? How do I tell him his semen tastes horrible?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

23 December 2011 (F) - It's mostly just way too salty. The taste is still in my mouth, and this is hours later! I dont want to hurt my boyfriend's pride, but I dont really want to have to feel like I'm drowning at the beach (How romantic) or something. I heard pine...