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Archived questions from: 21 September, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

Should I tell my boyfriend of 3 years about my one-night-stand?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4587 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I've just started university and last week was my freshers week. One night I really had too much to drink and ended up leaving the place I was in to go to a guys house and had unprotected sex. Only thing is, I'm in a relationship. I've been with my ...

Will anyone want me with this virus?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hi, I am an 18 year old girl who has recently been diagnosed with genital herpes. I have only ever had sex once. This occured when I was very drunk,and even though I didn't want to, I was persueded otherwise. I now feel as though I will never be ...

Am I considered too clingy in my LDR?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - Hi, my girlfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and are in a LDR. I don't want her to think I'm to clingy. I ask her to keep me updated what she's doing throughout the day but not every second like what she's eating or anything. I just ...

Should I move back or stay with my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - dear cupid, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, and i believe that i love him a lot, but i went this summer to a city outside of the province to visit my family and my friends. i spent two months there, and made some new friends ...

Is there any way I can climax without having to stimulate myself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Hey Agony Aunts, Ive been on Dear Cupid many many times before for various reasons, but this is my most person problem and Ive never asked anyone this before, if you could help me that would be great. Im not a very sexually active person, yet...

How do I give this new guy a chance? I might still be in love with my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a month now and i really do care about him. But at the same time I just got out of an relationship not to long ago and I feel as though im not giving this new guy my all because of how my ex treated me. He cheated on ...

My girlfriend is trying to control me and it's getting old.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - Okay, so I have an amazing girlfriend... she is gorgeous, nice, and funny... but there is one thing that really gets on my nerves and I'm about sick of it. She is extremely controlling. I am in college, and she is still in high school and she sounds ...

How does a loner get a boyfriend? I need to build more confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - okay, so it's kind of stupid but important to me i guess when i'm with people i go quiet, i'm way too shy and i just stand there like a loner. also when i'm with guys i'm too quiet. I'm not a quiet person usually with friends and family though a...

I'm confused! We haven't had a real conversation for a week.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - okay..so my borfriendd is the type that needs to talk to me every single day..and more then once. He always makes sure we communicate one way or another..and he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me everyday. this past week, he was away on ...

Is this girl in my class gay or not? I'm clueless...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - So heres a fairly normal situation for once. I just started college, there's a girl I like in one of my classes. REALLY like. Problem, is she gay or not? skip the intro/context if you want .........................

Any tips on how to get boys to notice me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - hi, i know this sounds kinda pathetic but here goes im 15 and have never had a boyfriend. i go to an all girls private school so dont get a chance to talk to boys, thats the main reason i have never had a boyfriend. i dont really do any out of sc...

Is he too young for me and how do I ask him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (?) - I'm 15 and he's 1 and a half years younger than me but I really like him. We've known eachother for like 3 months now and always flirt but i only talk 2 him in afternoon and morning for about half an hour each time coz we get the same bus. He has ...

I have a crush on him, what should I do (we are Muslims)?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I have a crush on this guy. He is my best friend. He is always beside me. I know him since the time he's still dating his ex-girlfriend. But, now they are no longer together. We went to a vacation together and enjoy weekends together. We are Muslim, ...

I'm worried my vagina isn't as good as the other girls' he's known!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I've got a boyfriend and we've been dating for a few months and we want to start on foreplay. I like the idea of it but I'm quite sensitive about my vagina. I know this may sound creepy/strange/etc. but I've fingered myself and I'm quite ...

Does he still want/like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I'm a teen who's been dating this guy almost a month, I've liked him almost a year before we started dating and he said he liked me too but didn't think I liked him... he's my neighbor and at first we spent a lot of time together mostly playing ...

Do you think if I lose weight he will think I look better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (?) - My boyfriend and I have been together about 2 months. I'm about to be 16 and he's 18. We have really good sex but I always feel insecure about my body because he is obsessed with porn! Now I'm really small. Only 5'1" 107 lbs. He's 6'4" 225 lbs. ...

She questioned if I liked anyone else/I've probably been clingy

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - So I've been dating my girlfriend for about a month. We hit it off right away but then one day during lunch at school i talked about a girl that i previously dated shortly with but many months ago. (Both of them know each other since middle-school.) ...

She won't be with me because of my self destructiveness. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5571 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - me n my ex broke up a month ago cuz i become mentally adicted to aerosol cans after awhile we hung out again n we told eachother we loved eachother we had sex a few times and all the feelings came back but her parents hate me and wouldnt let her be ...

Should I never speak to him? I've put up with enough of his mistreatment.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - I don't know what to do... I went out with a guy for 2 and a half years from the age of 16 until almost 19. He was 4 years older so 20 when we met. In short- i got kicked out of home a week after we got together and he had just been kicked out a ...

Why does he think the piercing is trashy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - There was a boy i realy liked and when i told hime i had my bellybutton pierced he said *wow thats trashy!" then he left! Why do you think he thinks its trashy?...

What shall I say to her? She really broke my heart.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - Ok so this about my ex. We broke up two weeks ago as of 9/19/09 and I thought I was almost completly over her. I had even asked her sister out because I thought that was over her and was ready to move on. Anyhow, yesterday I was at school and ...

Is my penis the right size to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

21 September 2009 (M) - hey people im really worried about something ive been going out with this girl for like 3 months now and she wants to have sex im 16 and im really unsure if my penis is the right size it is like 4.4inches and im really worried because in my last ...

I just don't think he cares about me at all!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

21 September 2009 (F) - Please help me with this because i feel so lost and hurt and the worst thing is i cant even talk to this guy about it. Thing is hes one of my best friends yet i really think he doesnt give a toss about me whats so ever! I may be taking this abit far ...