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*ottoncandy-
writes:dear cupid,me and my boyfriend have been dating for 6 months, and i believe that i love him a lot, but i went this summer to a city outside of the province to visit my family and my friends. i spent two months there, and made some new friends and had a crush on one of them that eventually went away. now i've moved back and with my boyfriend again. everything is great except for a couple days ago, my crush sent me a txt saying that he likes me a lot and wants me to come back. leaving my boyfriend would hurt soo much. we have a great relationship. but if i do move back, i could be with my family and old friends. i would eventually get over my boyfriend, and maybe go out with my crush after i healed. but im not sure if i want to.. should i move back??? or should i stay with my boyfriend?
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reader, cottoncandy- +, writes (22 September 2009):
cottoncandy- is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you both soo much for all your help. I've decided to stay here with my boyfriend. I saw him the other day and couldn't stop crying. I can't believe that I even thought about leaving him. It's almost impossible. I love him so much, thank you for the wonderful answers, I would've lost something really special if i didn't have your help.
you've helped so much.
thank you again,
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2009): That's really a decision that you should make for yourself, to decide which is better. I know if I was in your situation, I wouldn't leave my gf. I don't like starting over esp when I have something good going on. As I've heard, "why ruin a good thing".
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
If you really loved your boyfriend, you wouldn't even be asking that question. And I think deep down you know it. You're still young, so if you split from your boyfriend, and go with your crush and that goes wrong, you can move onto someone else. Think carefully though. The grass may look greener, but it might not be. All the best.
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