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writes:So I've been dating my girlfriend for about a month. We hit it off right away but then one day during lunch at school i talked about a girl that i previously dated shortly with but many months ago. (Both of them know each other since middle-school.) The conversation was just about a simple facebook picture w/ her but it seemed as if she took it out of context and overreacted on me. She texted me later saying "we need to talk...". The next day she wouldn't tell me what's up and the following night she texts again, "Are you still attracted to her? Be honest with me". I replied "No I'm not" because i explained that girl i used to date used me and only liked me for my physical looks. Now I'm in a situation that I'm lost in since she's probably suspicious of my feelings now. Also, I've noticed i was a bit clingy with her last week. How do I gain her trust about the feelings i solely have for her and give her the space she needs away from me? I share one class with her and usually see her at lunch... that's when most contact at school is made with her... I really don't want to lose her. =(
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 September 2009):
It's likely she's very insecure. That's hard to deal with, because clearly if after one month she's worried about you having a simple converstation with an ex, what's going to happen in two or three months. The most you can do is reassure her. But if she really gets very clingy and possessive and starts throwing accusations at you, then you'll need to make a hard decision.
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