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30-35,
*unky monkey
writes:hi, i know this sounds kinda pathetic but here goesim 15 and have never had a boyfriend. i go to an all girls private school so dont get a chance to talk to boys, thats the main reason i have never had a boyfriend. i dont really do any out of school clubs so dont really know any boys out of school. some of my friends have boyfriends but, their boyfriends were friends of theirs from out of school. i dont want to feel lonely, and most of my friends have boyfriends now and im starting to worry about when they have all paired off and i will be even lonelier than ever. ive always wanted a boyfriend and there are lots of reasons why i cant get one, but some of them are just small things like i dont think boys will like me coz im ugly or fat or something. i just want any info on what boys will like from a 15 year old girl, anything that will make them notice me or like me. thanx :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 September 2009): Guys seem to like it when girls naturally share their interests. Hang out in places that interest you - for example, bookstores, if you like books. Don't worry too much about impressing them with particular mannerisms or particular clothes or makeup, and focus instead on showing interest in them and their hobbies. Guys love being appreciated for who they are!
And don't worry about not having a boyfriend. I was in the same boat as you were, with all my friends being "paired off", but the reality is that at your age, most of those relationships won't last. I wouldn't be in any hurry to get involved in the drama that inevitably comes from all that. Enjoy your friends, and go out there and flirt.
And, lastly, a day will come, probably soon, that you'll be beating the boys off you with a stick. I was boyfriendless until 17, and I've never had a lack of romantic interests since then. Boys mature more slowly than girls do - give them some time and they'll figure out that they're interested :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 September 2009):
Don't rush! You're only 15. You're at an age where most (not all) boys generally aren't all that interested in much else other than one thing anyway. Just because your friends are pairing off doesn't mean you'll be lonely. Believe me, you do not want to take some boy on just for the sake of it. Just wait until the right guy comes along. The right guy will just like you for who you are.
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