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How do I give this new guy a chance? I might still be in love with my ex.

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Question - (21 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *rzpooh_estrella writes:

I've been seeing this guy for a month now and i really do care about him. But at the same time I just got out of an relationship not to long ago and I feel as though im not giving this new guy my all because of how my ex treated me.

He cheated on me numerous times. He claims that some of the girls were my friends. He's broken up with me because of rumors about me cheating.

I want to be with this new guy but I think I'm still in love with my ex. What should i do???

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A female reader, samurai girl United States +, writes (22 September 2009):

samurai girl agony auntyou need to give yourself a dating/relationship break. you are still smarting from the past and need time to heal. if you fall into a relationship w/ this man it won't last because you are still raw from the pain of what happened w/ your ex and you just aren't in a place mentally to be in a relationship.

give yourself time to heal and get to know yourself. you are 17; what is the rush? good luck.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2009):

This 'ex' claims some of the girls were your own friends. What a crap guy! Go out with this new guy and feel adored! You'll find that when you're treated better, you'll get over your ex.

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