A
male
age
30-35,
*rans Am Man
writes:Ok so this about my ex. We broke up two weeks ago as of 9/19/09 and I thought I was almost completly over her. I had even asked her sister out because I thought that was over her and was ready to move on. Anyhow, yesterday I was at school and sitting in the bleachers when I saw her walking towards me, she wasn't looking at me so I figured when she saw me she would turn around and walk away, but she sat down beside me and started talking to me for no reason. We talked alot about her new boyfriend and she told me her mom and sister don't like him. I was shocked to see her talking to me, it was weird because I had a dream this would happen. Anyhow now I have feelings for her again and I think she may want to go back out and I'm not sure what I should say because she really broke my heart. I loved her more than anything else in the world and I told her that all the time. I always told her how much I loved her and now I really don't know what to think. What do you think.
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reader, leo3 +, writes (22 September 2009):
 i think that you should wait for her to say something since shes the one that broke up with you. you dont want to risk getting hurt again. however even if she doesnt want to get back together with you just yet she probably misses you, especially since you were so good to her she probably wants to make sure she doesnt lose you forever. i just recently broke up with a guy who the way it sounds is a lot like you. he told me he loved me all the time and i broke his heart for personal reasons. but if your ex feels the way i do then she misses you and never wanted to break your heart but isnt sure if she should be with you for whatever reason. but she knows your a good person and probably still cares about you. shes probably just confused. but anyway give her time to come around, be her friend if you can and see what happens
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