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Archived questions from: 2 September, 2009 (see latest in Teenage category)

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Teenage: Help and advice

I love her, she's no longer in my school, how do I get the courage to contact her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - i like this girl who lives near me, ive always liked her but around 1 year ago she left my school so i havent seen her since then. i swear im in love with her, ive had loads of girlfriends but ive never felt the same about them as i do with her. my ...

Is he trying to mess with my head, or is he that into her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - one of my close guy friends i like said he loved me and he even said he wanted to marry me and we went out for about 3 months then i dumped him. now a month later he says he's "deeply in love" with one of my best friends and wants to ask her to ...

The psychiatrist recommeded meds, but my mom's against it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - i saw this psychyatrist because i was flunking out of grade 10 and my parents wanted to know what is wrong with me. bnasically im just depressed all the time and she wanted me to put me on meds but i said no and now months later im not any better. ...

I don't feel sexually satisfied, any tips to make sex better for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I'm in a relationship which is obviously more than just sex. However, when we do have sex i do not orgasm and i cannot tell when i am 'coming'. So while my partner is getting pleasured i dont find sex that great and end up unsatisfied and wanting ...

Why am I not attracted to anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I'm 15 going on 16 and I have never been attracted to anyone. Trust me I've tried. I thought in the past that perhaps I could be gay, but that doesn't work because, well I don't know, I'm not attracted to girls. Guys scare me, not just in the shy ...

We split up because I was self-harming.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - i fancyed this boy for just over five years. when i soon plucked up the courage to ask him out before i could finish the question he repled yes. i had never been so happy in my life. a week after we split up because i was self harming again. soon ...

We flirt by text but I'm nervous around her in person

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Okay, well there’s this girl I really like....let’s call her Charlote (not actual name) anyway..i think she likes me back but it is hard to tell the only real communication we have is via text and internet etc even though I do see her at school most ...

How can I get back with my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5522 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Hi, I went out with this girl for about 2 weeks, she was like my best friend before, But she stil is now. The reason we broke up was because it was really awkward, but that was mainly due to my friends being twats. So it was like awkward in the w...

Will a 20 year old get in trouble for dating a 14 year old girl?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - What trouble could a 20yr old male get in for dating a 14yr old girl even if both familys are happy with this and give them there full support?...

How can I make an impression so he'll know who I am?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - I like this one guy who doesnt really care about having a girlfriend!! So he doesnt bother to remember many pplz names so when my friend told him i liked him at first he thought i was someone else and then he just didnt know who i was!!! ...

Fashion tips for orientation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hi am looking for an outfit idea to where to my freshman orientation for grade nine! At the school im going to theres like a whole day made out of it lol! And the school is really preppy like brands like hollister ,abercrombie, american eagle, ...

After a break up, aren't we supposed to learn from our mistakes? I'm not! What's wrong with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hey im 17 and am very counfused apparently that after a break up we learn from our mistakes, but I think I haven't or have I? Everytime im with a decent guy I know that treats me right I get scared within the 1st month and start to feel traped a...

How do I concentrate on school and not on the girl I like?

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2 September 2009 (M) - I like a girl very much from past 3 years. I am currently in class 12th. She also studies with me. We talk to each other. We r just frnds. I think she knows i like her. But still, she has a boyfriend. I am losing concentration in my stud...

Friend has boyfriend issues... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hey, So a friend of mine (it's true, it's not me!) is having some issues with her boyfriend. They met on the internet, and they haven't met in real life yet, however her parents are fine with it and they are meeting in the half term. Recently she's ...

Two friends fighting over a boy and I'm stuck in the middle! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hello :D Okay so my friend has a boyfriend and they are perfect together, however my other friend has started to like him. Both friends are in a huge feud and I seem to be caught in the middle of it. Both of them usually come to me for a shoulder...

I love him, but its not the right time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - So I've been talking to this guy for about seven months and I completely love him and he loves me, but I can't handle it anymore. I love him so much and I don't want to hurt him, but how do I tell him right now just us the right time. ...

Crazy coincidence left me heartbroken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Hello Well i may be silly but this is a crazy coincidence and now my feelings for him are back again. Last year 2008 i started dating my ex boyfriend on the eleventh of april i remember the date because we went to see a movie we fell inlove wit...

People say I am cute looking but not pretty, is it the true reason for me to be still single to the age of 16?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - hi dear friends. My problem is that I fall in love with anyone on road and to coincidences, he also starts talking to me, looks at me as if he is in love but NEVER cares to propose. I am now finding my self giving up. I see that I have started ...

I feel so ugly, how can I look better?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5432 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Gah... how should I start this off... (I'm not so good at writing these haha...) well... Pretty much starting two years ago, I have been feeling ugly. Not only that, but I know I have gained a lot of weight and it shows, which makes me even ug...

How do I get my girlfriend to trust me? And how do I know if she loves me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - hello people.well im 15 years old.n heres my question how can u get ur gf 2 trust u...well i mess up on her n the firest 2 months i kiss another girl..it took me i say 2 months 2 tell her.but it was the time i statred realizing how much im n love ...

I have classes with my crush, how do I make sure things are not awkward between us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - so there's this guy I like and we were talking for like the longest time then when school started he stopped talking to me. we both liked each other too. well we have two classes together and things are awkward how do I get things to not be awkward ...

Why would I rather have a bad guy and try to change him, then have a good guy that doesn't have to be changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - How come after every relationship ends, I say I want a good guy. I want a guy that will finally treat me good, with the respect I know I deserve but how come when a guy like that comes around, then I don't want to take the chance? Why w...

How do I tell her that I need her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - How do I tell my girlfriend that I need her. I've told her lots of personal stuff, but I've never told her that I need her and I know I do so how do I tell her. I want to just so everything is in the open....

Why did she set me up with him if she liked him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Soo basically my best friend since 5th grade set me up with this guy a few months ago right after a long serious relationship I had. We both had a thing for e/o lasted a bit didnt actually go out. But after a couple days we decided to be friends ...

Do guys prefer small, petite girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Do guys prefer small, petite girls? I'm 4'11. Most of my guy friends love short girls, but I have met some who prefer 5'6 and over. What do you think?...

Does magic exist? Thoughts on childhood and growing up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - When you were a child, was everything somehow magical? You always knew something that the adults didn't. It wasn't a secret, just some form of fleeting knowledge that fades with age. When you were a teenager, weren't you in a hurry to grow up? You ...

I want to get her something that will show her I love her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - I want to get my girlfriend something that says I love you and I'll do anything to prove it. There is no special ocasion I just want to get her something. She's 14 so nothing sexual. I buy her flowers every now and then so I can't get her that. My ...

How do I say I love you without saying "I love you"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5559 days ago

2 September 2009 (F) - Me and my ex got back together after a 2 month split where he has another sexual relationship. he is asking me to show and tell him how i feel towards him, but i find it impossible to tell him how i feel because it is always in my mind that he ...

Should I tell my friend that she cheated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

2 September 2009 (M) - Ok i have a friend, lets call him Veidt, and he has a girlfriend ,lets call her Janey, and i had a party and rob, i mean veidt, was there, so was janey and a 3rd guy, lets call him nite owl, ok so its 1am and veidt is sleeping on the coach with me ...